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Amber Benson Transcript

November 2, 2000

[Dr. Drew is phoning-in from Las Vegas.]

Adam: Hey Drew?

Drew: Mmm-hmmm? Mmm-hmmm?

Adam: Why is it every... well, I don't want to say every one... but every other bio I get has the wrong time or date for the TV show that I'm supposed to be plugging on our show?

Drew: It's extraordinary. I remember... You know when it really started standing out is when they put in on a card in front of a camera during our TV show. It had the wrong network on it.

Adam: Yeah. And you know, it's funny, it just goes to prove my point which is: everyone wants to do everything but their job. You know what I mean? This is the publicity department, this is the nuts and bolts of their job: figure out the night, and day, and network, and do not f--- that up. Forget about the other stuff. There's stuff on here about Amber having a Dalmatian named Penny...

Amber: [Off-mic.] What?!

Adam: Is that right? Do you have a Dalmatian?

Amber: [Off-mic.] I... I take the fifth.

Adam: Speak into that microphone. Please.

Amber: Why would they put that...? Oh no!

Adam: Do you have a Dalmatian?

Amber: I do. I have a Dalmatian.

Adam: Named Penny?

Amber: Well actually, her name's Pennsylvania.

Adam: But you call her Penny.

Amber: Yeah, we had another one named Pittsburgh. Don't even ask.

Adam: The point is: that's correct. That part's right. They got the "Dalmatian named Penny" part right. They just screw up on the time the show's on. All right. Well, anyway -- "Buffy the Vampire Slayer". Amber, you play a lesbian witch.

Amber: Yes I do. [Giggles.]

Adam: And, you know, Amber's a little crazy, but in a fun way, Drew.

Amber: I am not! Just -- my water was frozen.

Adam: Yes. And it thawed and it broke, Drew.

Amber: [Laughing.] No!

Drew: Now... 'lesbian witch'... Does Wicca include lesbian witches?

Amber: Um...

Adam: Yeah. Oh, they're all lesbians, those Wiccans. Aren't they?

Drew: That's the question.

Amber: No no no no. I think just because the character that I portray happens to be a lesbian who's interested in Wicca... You don't have to be a lesbian to be interested in Wicca, though. That just happened to be what was going on with my character.

Adam: But you do have to be at least seventy pounds overweight and sort of off-the-market from a dating standpoint.

Amber: For a Wicca or being a lesbian?

Adam: Yes. Which is the biggest lie on television. Yes.

Amber: No no no no. Beautiful women are into Wicca. Beautiful women are into Wicca.

Drew: Only in movies.

Adam: In movies. Right.

Drew: Who was the other Wiccan we had in there, Adam? The other night?

Adam: We had a beautiful, slender, young gal... who was here...

Drew: The new Blair Witch Project.

Adam: Right. She was in here from that project. And she basically told me that all the Wiccans that she studied were fat. She had to hang with a bunch of Wiccans to kind of, you know, research the role and they were all fat.

Amber: Somehow, I can't go with that big generalization that every Wiccan is overweight.

Adam: No. There was one skinny one. She was stoned in 1842...

Amber: No...

Adam: ...by the fat Wiccans.

Amber: I think you get all shapes and sizes with anything.

Adam: No. You do. You get a variety. You get big, large, and husky. [Laughs.]

Amber: That's not funny! I took lots of pot-shots about my weight on "Buffy"...

Adam: You did? What's wrong with your weight?

Amber: I'm five-four and I weigh a hundred and eighteen pounds. Just... because I'm not a stick... You know, they take pot-shots at you.

Adam: What do you mean? Your weight's fine.

Amber: I'm fine! Look -- see? As I lift up my sh... -- not my shirt, my sweater. I have a shirt underneath that one.

Adam: That's right. She's not wearing a bra or a shirt under it, but...

Amber: That's not true!

Drew: The only reasonable explanation for that is that everyone else has an eating disorder and they're jealous.

Adam: Yeah.

Amber: And a lot of it actually came from people on the Internet and people who are not affiliated with the entertainment industry. I think that because we have this skewed image of what is attractive nowadays, you have to be anorexic-looking or looking like you came out of a concentration camp. You know? Anybody who's not that gets kinda lambasted.

Adam: Well, listen. Here's the deal about television...

Amber: So I'm sensitive about my weight! All right?!

Adam: No kiddin'.

Drew: Wow.

Amber: [Laughing.] I'm just kidding. I'm just kidding.

Adam: Hey Drew, I told you she's a little nutty. Hey Drew, can you get a flight back here? I'm nervous.

Amber: [Laughs.]

Drew: You gotta come out here. What are you talking about?

Adam: Oh yeah, that's right! Do the rest of the show from Olympic Gardens over there. Let me tell you something about television. It's a relative thing. Like, most people on TV, they're good looking, but they're small people.

Amber: Yeah, they're just all very petite.

Adam: Yeah. Even the guys.

Amber: No, you're tall. And you're on TV.

Adam: I know. But that's a fluke. That will never happen again.

Drew: Were sort of large guys, and everyone thinks we're small.

Amber: [Laughs.]

Adam: Yeah. Because we're the same height, basically, and people do the math. Meaning, you know... All the guys, all the hunky guys on TV, whether it's, you know, Luke Perry...

Amber: They're all very small.

Adam: ...or Michael J. Fox, or whoever these guys are, they're usually little, little guys.

Amber: Little petite boys.

Adam: And Drew and I are always... Drew, what are you? Six-one and change?

Drew: Yeah.

Adam: What am I, a quarter -- I gotta be -- what am I, three-eighths of an inch taller than you?

Drew: Yeah.

Adam: Thank you. All right, Amber's also on The Prime Gig, which is a new movie which will be coming out in about a hundred years. No -- when is that coming out?

Amber: Uh, January. I think, I think -- I don't know for certain.

Adam: Speaking of tall, Vince Vaughn is in this...

Amber: Oh yeah. He's awesome. Very tall guy.

Adam: ...and Ed Harris, and Julia Ormond, and... Wow. It's a pretty good cast.

Amber: Very nice cast. And they're very nice. We had a really cool time making that movie, so...

Adam: Vince Vaughn's not gay, is he?

Amber: I would doubt that highly.

Adam: You would?

Amber: Yeah. He gave off heterosexual vibe.

Adam: He did?

Amber: Definitely to me. I mean, maybe. I don't know. I don't go to... you know, home with him, or anything. I don't know. [Laughs.]

Adam: You know, I did this Coby Bryant celebrity, like, "Bowl for Pediatric Aids" or something. It's weird when they combine stuff like bowling and brain cancer.

Amber: I know. It's sad.

Adam: It's kind of a weird thing. But anyway. And it's always funny too...

Amber: But it's for a good cause, so...

Adam: Yeah, but whenever I do something like that, people go, people always go, "Hey hey hey. Thanks. Thanks a lot, man. Thanks for making it. Thanks for coming out." And I'm always like, "Hey, I like bowling! I give a rat's ass about the pediatric aid!"

Amber: "Forget the charity!"

Adam: "This is free bowling! I gotta guy going across the street to the Dale's Junior trying to get a six-pack right now. Are you in?"

Amber: No, I go to movie premieres because it's a free movie and free food. Because I've been starving for nine years.

Adam: I don't even know what Coby... I swear to Christ, I don't know what Coby Bryant is raising money for, but all I know is, it's free bowling for me. But I was there, and I saw a guy, one of the other -- [Laughs.] "One of the other." One of the celebrities... one of the celebrities was bowling, and there was this guy, and he threw the ball like a girl. Like a girl throws a ball. Not one of the husky lesbians on the ladies' pro bowling tour. But I mean, kinda like a girl. Like... Drew, you know when you bowl? Drew?

Drew: Yeah.

Adam: You know how guys bowl angry? Like they try to hurt the pins?

Drew: Yeah. They heave it.

Adam: They heave it. They launch the ball. They get that sorta Fred Flintstone run at it and they just try to wallop the pins.

Drew: Yeah. And in fact, the ball doesn't even roll -- its slides.

Amber: [Laughs.]

Adam: Yeah. It slides. Like mine actually has a backspin on it, like when you throw a Hula Hoop on a front lawn. Right? And I saw this guy roll the ball, and I was like, "Oh, Jesus, is that a chick?" And it turned around, and it was Vince Vaughn. And Vince Vaughn came and he sat down a couple seats away from me...

Amber: Oooh. I should have known this story had a point. [Laughs.]

Adam: Yeah. I started watching him. And he moves... he's very fluid.

Amber: Yeah, he's very graceful.

Adam: He's very -- yes -- graceful. I don't trust that graceful. He's like a ballet dancer.

Amber: Well, Dean Martin's kinda graceful, and those guys...

Adam: Oh, please. He was drunk and tripping over folding chairs. Not graceful.

Amber: [Laughs.]

Drew: Sloppy and graceful, not the same thing.

Adam: Yes. The point is, Vince Vaughn, has a very sort of fluid, willowy... Drew, you know how when you sit, you cross your legs like a chick?

Drew: And it pisses you off?

Adam: Drew sits... You know how Drew sits? He crosses his legs like he's wearing a miniskirt on "The Mike Douglas Show".

Amber: You've got yours crossed right now.

Adam: I'm doing it. I'm doing it to show Drew. No, you know how guys cross their legs? A guy crosses his legs by putting his ankle on top of his knee.

Amber: A little breathing room, huh?

Adam: Drew crosses his legs by putting the inside of one knee on top of the other knee. Do you see what I'm saying? Things that, if you have genitalia...

Amber: I don't know if I would personally, like, go -- you know, if I were you -- if I would go into this whole, like, you know, girly thing, because you knew all about triple Salchows, and axels, and ice skating stuff, so...

Adam: Drew knew about the Salchow. I only knew about the camel.

Amber: You knew the camel and the axel. You knew the axel.

Adam: Yeah. I know. Well, he has to. His wife would kick his ass. All right, Drew. What am I doing? Picking the calls tonight?

Drew: No, I'm doing it.

Adam: Oh, you are? Oh. You just hung up on line number one. [Laughs.]

Drew: Oh. That was a good one, too.

Adam: Yeah, they're going to commit suicide. Ah ha ha ha!

Amber: You're mean.

Drew: Well, we can try to get them back.

Adam: Whoa ho ho ha!

Amber: You're mean!

Drew: Still there? Line one?

Adam: Mike?

Caller: Yeah.

Adam: All right, what's your problem?

Drew: We got him.

Caller: That was kinda weird.

Amber: [Laughs.]

Caller: All right...


[Amber has just revealed that she's still a virgin.]

Amber: I just haven't met that person yet.

Adam: She lives with her mom.

Amber: [Laughing.] Shut up!

Adam: She's twenty-three years old.

Amber: Shut up!

Adam: Her mom drove her because she doesn't have a driver's license.

Amber: [Laughing.] Shut up!

Adam: She's too distracted to drive an automobile.

Amber: [Laughs.]

Adam: She's never had sex with a man.

Amber: [Laughs.]

Adam: What is up? What happened?

Amber: And there's nothing wrong with that. There's nothing wrong.

Adam: Oh, ho ho ho... now. Come on, Drew. You wanna make a diagnosis?

Drew: You're going to crack her?

Amber: [Laughs.]

Adam: I don't know. I just think...

Amber: What?! No!

Adam: No. Your parents were on you too much, too early, or something -- over-domineering, right?

Amber: No no no no. I just think... For me personally -- and this has no, like...

Adam: What was your childhood like? You did a lot of reading?

Amber: I did a lot of reading. I was a dork. I admit that freely. I was a big dork growing up.

Adam: "Was"?

Amber: [Laughs.]

Adam: One of those vivid... Hold on...

Amber: You know what? You know what?

Adam: Oh, how dare you?

Amber: I'm not talking to you anymore.

Adam: Oooh, how dare you? Listen, you were one of those kids with a vivid imagination. Right?

Amber: I'm an actor for god's sakes. Come on.

Adam: Right. Right. But were your parents dragging you out to auditions when you were four and that kind of stuff?

Amber: No. Oh, no, no. I'm from Alabama. I'm a nice southern girl.

Adam: Whose idea was it for you to act?

Amber: Me.

Adam: You?

Amber: Oh yeah. I love the camera. I'm a big ham.

Adam: You when you were two-and-a-half?

Amber: Not two-and-a-half!

Adam: How old were you?

Amber: Oh god, I don't know. I didn't start until I was fourteen out here. So, you know.

Adam: Really? How long were you acting in Alabama? Can you act in Alabama? You get shot in Alabama...

Amber: You can do community theater in Alabama, which is awesome. I did a lot of that.

Adam: Really?

Amber: Yeah.

Adam: How old were you when you started?

Amber: Oh I don't know. I think I was, like, eight.

Adam: Eight, maybe six?

Amber: I don't know. I was into dancing. I was a hyper child, so she put me in everything.

Adam: Head shots?

Amber: No no no no no...

Adam: When did you get your first head shot?

Amber: Oh, I don't know. I think when I came out here and I was fourteen.

Adam: All right. All right. I'll set you slide. Poor mother's cringing over there.

Amber: [Laughs.]

Drew: She may be super-healthy, Adam.

Adam: I think she may be. Yes. I'd like to make you my wife.

Amber: [Laughs.] No, I just haven't met anybody that I, you know... I haven't fallen in love. And I think, for me personally, until I find that person -- whether it's marriage or not -- I just, you know...

Adam: Okay. All right.

Amber: You know -- that's just me.

Adam: You're not religious -- just crazy, right?

Amber: No, I'm a mutt religion-wise.

Adam: Right.

Drew: As far as Ryan goes, to get back to that call...

Amber: Yeah. Now that we've segued into my pathetic life...

Drew: I'm more concerned that that sister may have some boundary issues, maybe have some sexual identity issues. And, you know, the fourteen-year-old that's blowing through boundaries strangely, and experimenting with same-sex... I mean, it suggests something happened to that sister.

Amber: Well, playing doctor at fourteen is a little...

Drew: ...bizarre.

Amber: Yeah. That is really strange.

Drew: And so, it's not about being gay, it's about being disturbed. There's something going on with her.

Adam: Thank you. All right. Wes, you're twenty-nine?

Drew: No no -- we got to go to break!

Caller: Yeah.

Adam: You've got red dots on your penis?

Caller: Yeah.

Adam: All right. What is that, Drew?

Drew: He's very excited about them. I need to hear more.

Adam: You don't need to hear more. He needs to go get it checked out. You can't help him.

Drew: Of course. Of course.

Adam: So why don't we tell him to go get it checked out? We talk to some yahoo with dots on his dork every night. It's the same call. You know?

Drew: It's the dots-on-dork syndrome. Yes.

Amber: [Laughs.]

Drew: There's a new Dr. Seuss book, in fact. We're going to have an STD Dr. Seuss book.

Adam: "See dots on dork."

Drew: "See dots on dork."

Amber: [Laughing.] Oh no!

Adam: Yeah. That's right. "Hop on pop, and then put the dots on your dork."

Amber: [Laughs.]

Adam: We'll take a little break. Amber Benson is our guest tonight. Twenty-three, a virgin, everybody...

Amber: Oh shut up!

Adam: ...mom drove her here tonight.

Amber: [Laughing.] Shut up!

Adam: All right. We'll take a break, we'll be back.