The
Loveline
Companion

Rip off your clothes and go at it!

—acm

Already did, but I was the only one here. I need a partner.

—Mayonnaise

Pics please.

—acm

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=32737259

—Mayonnaise

I don't understand how someone get back with their spouse after adultery. I have discovered that i am the crazy, jealous type. I am starting to realize why commited relationships are not meant for me. I will be on the news for cutting a man's balls off. I got emotional when i saw on fb that my older co-worker played pool with a younger guy that we work with and i am not even attracted to him.

—L_to_the_A is back!

if you are jealous of a guy you had a one-night stand with, what kind of relationship do you envision where you would not feel jealous?

at least if you are in a committed relationship with a guy who is not a hound, then you have no reason to be jealous.

if you are with someone who adores you, he ain't goin nowhere.

—pookie

I didn't sleep with this guy. I'm just friends with him on fb. He's a barista and I used to talk to him and be silly on fb. They're both married and i was reading thier status comments and that's when i realized that being married and finding out your spouse is facebook flirting with somone would be so heartbreaking.

—L_to_the_A is back!

I live like 400 feet higher than 4863 ft.

—ZT-In

Sorry acm, you were requesting pics of me masturbating, weren't you?

—Mayonnaise

Yes, that's correct.

—acm

Hmmm...using my left hand to take the pic could present a challenge.

—Mayonnaise

This relationship is moving too fast. I need some time to myself to figure things out. It's not you, it's me.

—acm

Geesh. I get the same from y'all online too. No wonder I hate women.

—Mayonnaise

—ZT-In

I don't understand how someone get back with their spouse after adultery. I have discovered that i am the crazy, jealous type. I am starting to realize why commited relationships are not meant for me

I lost the energy to be crazy jealous around 25/26 although I had several girlfriends who made my jealousy founded it's just not something ot spend a lot of time on. If someone is evoking those feelings in you and those feelings are based on actual behavior by that someone--just move on. Unless you live in a small town bereft of suitable partners there's no need to take on projects.

—bguirk

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=32737259

hey mayo, how YOU doin'?

—catloaf

I don't know. How YOU doing?

—Mayonnaise

Is it weird to have oral sex only with a friend with benefit? I don't see the point of having vaginal intercourse. It hurts, it doesn't feel good, I'm gonna bleed again and worry about being pregnant. Do guys get turned off if only a girl offers them a bj. I would suppose that a guy gets off with a bj easily since the girl can use her mouth for more than 20 minutes.

—L_to_the_A is back!

I think this is where Adam (circa ten years ago) would mention wine coolers.

—ZT-In

Hey at least I give a BJ/HJ and I even played with his balls. He seemed to like me playing with the balls. I was reading a forum discussion about females not giving oral or RECEIVING at all. How is that possible? Do they just jump straight to sex.

My biggest concern is pregnancy, that's the only thing stopping me.

—L_to_the_A is back!

You don't see the point of vaginal intercourse? Women for thousands of years have seen the point and the consensus is that it's pretty good. The first time is notorious for hurting. And even if it wasn't, you are obviously so nervous about the whole thing that your vag is probably wound up tighter than Drew's wallet. You need to find someone to sleep with on at least a semi-regular basis so you can get comfortable and figure things out. Then you should be good to go with others down the line.

—Mayonnaise

I' would do it with someone who is committed or married to me. There's a pregnancy risk every time you have intercourse. I don't wanna end up with baby daddy drama.

—L_to_the_A is back!

Marriage and long term relationships are just so 20th century.

—he sounds like a delight

^lame. Anyways it has been 16 days since intercourse and my home preg test keeps showing up negative. Catloaf, 16 days past ovulation that confirms it?

After doing research on the reproductive system, it seems like a lot of people do not understand how it works. Having intercourse after 3 days past ovulation will really decrease your chances of becoming pregnant. If the egg drops and after 24 hours it is not fertilized with sperm, how would you possibly get pregnant? I know sperm can live up to 5 days.

—L_to_the_A is back!

Why don't you get on the shot or pill AND use condoms? If you get pregnant using both of those, it's because God wants you pregnant.

—Mayonnaise

There's still a 1% chance, plus I don't think having sex with a guy who is not going to stick around is the best idea.

—L_to_the_A is back!

Innumeracy is killing this country ^^^

—bguirk

This thread...lulz.

—acm

There's nothing lol about this thread. The number of teenage pregnancies and unplanned parenthood is alarming. Open books, not legs, acm!!!

—L_to_the_A is back!

<stelladontreadthis>Leens - the girls who get pregnant are the girls who want to get pregnant. Just the pill or just the condoms are really about 100% effective if used correctly, and together there's really not a chance. If something go awry there's the morning after pill, and if that fails there's mifepristone. The statistics on the "failure" rate of the first two are skewed by all of the "planned accidents" that are falsely attributed to contraceptive failure.

If you get an IUD or get on the shot, you'll be fine. If you get really good at giving oral, you'll be fine. I would rather have good oral and a girl scratch my back than have vaginal sex sans the scratching any day. So, you know, learn to scratch (or massage, some dudes like that more) and give them BJs, and you'll be the most desired woman in the world without ever having to spread your legs. You can write a book about how well it works, and I won't even make you credit me. You can call it "Lena's Method of Scratching and Sucking Your Way To Love and Marriage." You'll be famous, and the men of the world will be happier for it.</stelladontreadthis>

—ZT-In

Looking back I was not affectionate at all. I held back, I didn't talk dirty, refused to make out. I think he did most of the work. He went down on me first, then penetrated. After the first round he started stroking my leg, followed with a back massage, then round 2, HE told me to give him oral...and that was that. I am disappointed in myself. It's just hard when you have only hanged out twice outside of work and only known him for less than 2 months.

—L_to_the_A is back!

wine coolers. :)

—ZT-In