Monday, August 13, 2012 at 10:43 PM 1. Are you with someone who puts your needs before his or her own on things that are really important to you? so according to whoever wrote this, in an ideal relationship you should be looking for the other person to put your needs before theirs if something is "really important to you". what if they see this list though and think that you should put their needs before yours when something is really important to them? lots of stuff in life is going to be important to two people, like kids, where you live, even what you eat for dinner. both people are told by this list that the other person should give them their way. logical consistency fail. i don't think anyone should look to someone else to meet all their needs, go out and get a life and stop looking to ur bf gf to be everything to you. —stellagold |