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mandee

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 12:16 AM

i haven't had sex in forever and i'm ready for it, so i put an ad on craigslist basically saying let's just get it over with. good/bad idea? i'm scared.

mandee

  

ZT Spice

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 12:26 AM

It will give you a litter of guys to choose from.

ZT Spice

  

John Lennon

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 12:42 AM


John Lennon

  

whoisnumbaone

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 12:44 AM

uh... do it

whoisnumbaone

  

mandee

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 12:49 AM

i'm getting some hotty replies, guys. i also might get raped/die.

mandee

  

John Lennon

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 12:51 AM

In order to lose her virginity, Mandee will have to find....A RRRAPIST!

John Lennon

  

mandee

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 1:19 AM

i think i'm going to hookup with a stranger tomorrow night, guys.

at least i won't have that awkward moment when we pass eachother going to class, right?

mandee

  

whoisnumbaone

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 1:21 AM

hey mandee, are you smoking out of an apple in that pic you have?

whoisnumbaone

  

John Lennon

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 1:23 AM

Make sure you tell someone where you're going and call them when you get there. I really don't think this is the greatest idea. And anyway I thought most Jewish girls liked wonton because backwards it spells "not now".

John Lennon

  

mandee

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 1:24 AM

yeah, it's out of an apple.

i'm sitting here with my friend and she's the only one who is going to know about it and i'll have my phone and everything with me at all times and i'm bringing pepper spray just in case.

mandee

  

John Lennon

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 1:26 AM

It's not just an apple, it's a foil-wrapped apple. No idea why you would use that instead of getting a pipe. If you're going to smoke at least pony up for a pipe.

Have fun when your gums decay as a result of the weed smoking. I read about that in a study from New Zealand that came out this past week.

John Lennon

  

John Lennon

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 1:27 AM

What about condoms Mandee?

John Lennon

  

whoisnumbaone

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 1:28 AM

hey mandee, when you finish your "romp," look at the guy straight in the eye and say "that will be $300." hahaha

whoisnumbaone

  

John Lennon

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 1:29 AM

that's what HE'S gonna say!

John Lennon

  

acm323

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 2:17 AM

Be careful, Mandee.

acm323

  

mandee

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 2:29 AM

i decided to say im a virgin so the guy would know to be gentle becuase it always hurts when i have sex, so i'm gonna do it with this guy tomorrow night and he seems solid. i ll let you know how it goes. i promised my friend i'd text her constantly

mandee

  

plurry

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 3:29 AM

youtube or it didn't happen!!!11

plurry

  

anfernee

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 3:43 AM

OMGOSH, I can't believe you're actually doing this, you've got guts. Post his picture!! This may be the greatest thread ever

anfernee

  

airking32

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 4:22 AM
Edited Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 4:23 AM

this is inspiring. INCLUDING mandee, there is AT LEAST ONE real girl posting on craigslist. hmm.

airking32

  

mandee

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 7:06 AM

although, i am slightly deceiving him because i'm not really a virgin, but still, it's not like i'm incredibly experienced or anything.

i'm really really nervous about all of this, but at the same time, i feel like it could be a good experience. i probably will never have sex with a stranger again. you know, jews don't normally do this. i'm going to take a lot of klonopin before i go.

mandee

  

mandee

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 7:13 AM

also, i got a ton of responses, but here is my favorite:

I gently bit your bottom lip, and I suck your lip into my mouth, I
can taste the sweetness of your saliva, I am tasting the inside of
your mouth, my hands reach down to you, pulling the small of your
back closer to me, my left hand kneads and palms your ass, and I
can feel your hips trying to rotate toward my free hand, I push my
hand firmly into your crotch, pushing my fingers into your jeans
trying to find your clit through the thick fabric, I can't wait for
you anymore, I roll you over onto your stomach, I reach under you
and unbutton your pants and tug them, toward your feet, your pants
are like ankle locks, I push my hand into your pussy thorough your
underwear, I firmly rub my hand into your clit, sometimes I get
aggressive about having you my way, I tug your undies down toward
your ankles but not off, I slide 2 fingers inside you, while I turn
your neck towards me so I can try to inhale your tongue, as my
fingers push into you and I feel your slickness on my hand, my
mouth gets greedy, I pivot you up on your knees, with your bare ass
sticking up, I lie behind you and I reach to either side of you and
grab my hands around your thin wrists, I forcefully pull your sweet
wet pussy toward my starving mouth, at first all I can do is just
lap up your juices, but as my dick hardens, I push my face and
tongue deeper into you. my tongue comes out of you and pushes
firmly into your clit, that's what you were looking for, your ass
starts pushing into me the harder I push. I strip you of all your
clothes, I slide two
fingers deep into your pussy, I pull my hand out of
you and bring it up to our mouths and we kiss while my hands slips
my two fingers into your mouth so you can taste yourself, it is
intoxicating. now with three wet fingers, I slide two back into
your pussy while the third slides against your little asshole, I
noticed the harder I pushed my fingers into
you...................................
hit me back if you are less than disgusted
well hung, D+D free, creative and funny
I am good at a lot of shit

mandee

  

whoisnumbaone

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 10:29 AM

This guy is weird! I suggest you not do this, or take someone with you to wait in the car.

whoisnumbaone

  

John Lennon

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 11:24 AM

It would be so weird if Mandee showed up and the "mystery guy" was Dusty.

John Lennon

  

mandee

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 12:18 PM

i don't live near dusty, so i doubt it. and i'm not going with the guy who sent me that email. i'm going with the most attractive one. in a motel because i'm classy.

mandee

  

John Lennon

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 12:41 PM

Are you going to split the cost or make him pay for the room?

John Lennon

  

adams_babymomma

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 12:57 PM

Mandee, you're crazy!

adams_babymomma

  

foob2011

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 1:21 PM

don't worry about it. craigslist is a great way to meet people. i did it once and met some cool people.

foob2011

  

adams_babymomma

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 1:22 PM

^why meet people online, when you could be hooking up with some smart girl from Georgetown?

adams_babymomma

  

foob2011

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 1:28 PM

because people from georgetown rarely "hook up", its a side effect of being socially and sexually repressed. about half of the incoming class are virgins. i met a girl who didn't know what "cum" was and some girls who (seriously) don't know what a dick looks like, how it works, or how their own reproductive system works.

foob2011

  

adams_babymomma

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 1:39 PM
Edited Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 1:40 PM

^How did they get into Georgetown? I thought people who attend Ivy League schools are well aware of everything...including cum.

That should be an acceptance requirement, besides the 4.6 GPA and 80 hrs of community service.

adams_babymomma

  

mandee

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 2:13 PM

brandeis people are socially awkward as well. i'm sure it's a similar situation to georgetown.

mandee

  

adams_babymomma

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 2:23 PM
Edited Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 2:25 PM

brandeis people are socially awkward as well. i'm sure it's a similar situation to georgetown.

—mandee

What about the ones who are communication majors/pre-law? I was reading over the job description for public reations officer and it stated "People who choose public relations as a career need an outgoing personality". What exactly do they mean by outgoing? Take em' to a bar, swing from the pole, show them a good time? I never really understood people who claim to be outgoing. Shavoun from the Real World Sydney said she's outgoing, but she's a total slut.

adams_babymomma

  

airking32

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 2:25 PM

hey mandee, how come you haven't met anyone you can make into a fuck buddy? given that you seem to be intent on following thru with this craigslist hookup (and bravo, i say), you don't strike me as the timid type. why not just proposition some male friend of yours? there aren't too many guys (even if they aren't attracted) who would turn you down flat if you point-blank asked them to fuck you. maybe then it can be more than a one time thing and you won't feel so sexually repressed.

airking32

  

adams_babymomma

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 2:28 PM

^Becuase she's not a slut. You think it's easy for a female to be like "yeah I don't date, I just fuck my buddy John".


Women are mean creatures, and they just love to bring up mistakes from the past.

adams_babymomma

  

airking32

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 2:34 PM

i would think it'd be easier to say "yeah i don't date, i just fuck my buddy john" than it would be to say "i fucked a stranger from craigslist."

again, i don't look down upon it. people need sex. i was only wondering why she resorted to an online bulletin board when she doesn't have to.

airking32

  

bguirk

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 2:50 PM

other than nervous how do you feel about this mandee?

bguirk

  

John Lennon

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 2:56 PM

My prediction: after she goes through with it, mandee is going to feel even worse and get going even more with the klonopin. Even if the sex was good.

John Lennon

  

bguirk

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 2:57 PM

don't talk about mandee like she's not here.

bguirk

  

mandee

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 3:43 PM

this isn't something that i'm going to go around telling people about. only one of my friends knows about this and we're wearing promise rings to never tell anyone. i just really need to have sex and i don't want the burden of it being awkward when i see them on campus. my school is very small and i am usually around the same group of people, which limits my prospects anyway. but really, there is just no one that i want to have sex with at school. i like the idea of it being a total stranger that i don't really know and i can just do it and then it's over with. i have a lot of sexual energy that needs to be freed right now.

mandee

  

John Lennon

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 3:54 PM

how old does the guy say he is?

John Lennon

  

whoisnumbaone

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 4:01 PM

Women are mean creatures, and they just love to bring up mistakes from the past.

omg yes they do

whoisnumbaone

  

perulovesyou

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 4:02 PM

This sounds like a terrible idea, make sure you have that pepper spray and come up with a time when your friend should call you.

Just find someone from TLC...

perulovesyou

  

whoisnumbaone

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 4:23 PM
Edited Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 4:23 PM

Theres no such thing as having sex with a friend only once. After you cross that line, there is always sexual tension.

whoisnumbaone

  

foob2011

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 5:13 PM

mandee, hop on the train and come down to dc.

foob2011

  

John Lennon

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 5:24 PM

this isn't something that i'm going to go around telling people about. only one of my friends knows about this and we're wearing promise rings to never tell anyone.

Except for the part where you tell a whole internet forum about your plans.

John Lennon

  

adams_babymomma

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 5:32 PM

Are you meeting him tonight?

adams_babymomma

  

foob2011

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 6:03 PM

eh, there are only maybe 30 people who really frequent this board.

foob2011

  

ZT Spice

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 6:07 PM
Edited Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 6:07 PM

IF MANDEE ASKED ME, THERE WOULD BE A 30% CHANCE I WOULD FLY OUT.

ZT Spice

  

whoisnumbaone

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 6:55 PM

are you gonna get drunk before you meet up with this guy?

whoisnumbaone

  

John Lennon

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 7:16 PM

She said she was going to take a lot of klonopin. I just want to know how much "a lot" is.

John Lennon

  

acm323

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 8:31 PM

because people from georgetown rarely "hook up", its a side effect of being socially and sexually repressed. about half of the incoming class are virgins. i met a girl who didn't know what "cum" was and some girls who (seriously) don't know what a dick looks like, how it works, or how their own reproductive system works.

True story...

My mom was very naive growing up. She grew up with her parents and her two older sisters. The only time she really saw a penis was the two or three times she saw her dad get out of the shower when she was very little.

Anyway, when she was about twenty she got invited over to one of her friend's dorm rooms. When she walked into her room she saw a bunch of posters of naked men. According to my mom it went something like this:

"Oh my God!"

"What?"

"The balls..."

"What about them?"

"The balls are below the penis?"

"Yeah..."

"I thought they were on top."

"Are you fucking kidding me?"

"No!"

acm323

  

foob2011

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 8:35 PM

bahhahahahahahahahahahahahaha

foob2011

  

Beat It!

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 9:05 PM
Edited Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 9:10 PM

Yeah, but that was before the interwebs. There's no excuse these days.

In fact I gotta call bogus on the girls "who didn't know what penis looked like or what it did." That isn't naive, it's completely retarded - like walking around in a helmet, drooling on your self level of retardation. Christ, anyone who's seen a dog would know what it looks like.

Beat It!

  

whoisnumbaone

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 9:11 PM

whoisnumbaone

  

foob2011

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 9:25 PM

In fact I gotta call bogus on the girls "who didn't know what penis looked like or what it did." That isn't naive, it's completely retarded - like walking around in a helmet, drooling on your self level of retardation. Christ, anyone who's seen a dog would know what it looks like.


—Beat It!

Well I guess they knew the general structure (biology class, duh) but my point is they had never seen one, irl or otherwise.

foob2011

  

Beat It!

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 9:30 PM

That makes more sense but that totally did not come across in your original post.

I still find it hard to believe that a girl can make it to college in today's world of instant and pervasive porn not having seen at least a picture of a penis. Though I do believe that some girls would want others to believe that is true for a number of reasons.

Beat It!

  

foob2011

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 9:36 PM

Yeah, but hey, hardcore catholic university (52%), and it's not restricted to the girls, plenty of the guys are virgins, although not as naive.

foob2011

  

Beat It!

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 9:43 PM
Edited Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 9:44 PM

Oh, I believe there are a lot of virgins, but I'd also bet some of these same girls want to give the other the impression that their virginity extends to their eyeballs as well (likely out of shame, guilt, embarrassment, etc.). But it's not likely the case. It just seems so hard to pull off (no pun intended) in this day and age without some insane level of home-schooling.

Beat It!

  

foob2011

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 10:08 PM

Actually, I've met quite a few people who were homeschooled here. It's quite possible that's the reason for some of them.

foob2011

  

Jaffa Cakes

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 11:11 PM

Well, Mandee's alive. Whether she's capable of typing out a post is another matter.

Jaffa Cakes

  

foob2011

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 11:14 PM

she might be "tied up"

foob2011

  

mandee

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 11:22 PM

imfuckign drunk and i'mok bute i'll tell you guys tomorrow

mandee

  

acm323

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Saturday, February 9, 2008 at 11:56 PM

Jesus...

acm323

  

TortillaFactory

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 12:20 AM

Don't be an anti-Semite.

TortillaFactory

  

whoisnumbaone

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 1:34 AM

wow, i cant wait to hear this one...

whoisnumbaone

  

stefanie

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 6:13 AM

oh my

i hate how all guys think they are really good at fingering. they are probably not.

stefanie

  

mandee

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 9:55 AM
Edited Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 9:56 AM

ok, so here's the story.
i got pretty drunk before i went, which calmed my nerves a lot. he picked me up at a restaurant down the street because i didn't want him to know where i lived. we went to a days inn (because i'm incredibly classy). he paid for it because obviously i wasn't going to. in the car, i let him know that i wasn't actually a virgin and he said that he was kind of relieved. anyway, he had a beard, which was a good thing and he was relatively attractive. he was 29 and i like old men, so that was fine. ok, so we got to the hotel and you know, got it on. i didn't enjoy kissing him because he kept breathing on me and i didn't like that, so i kept turning away. this nigga loved to cuddle and i wasn't a huge fan of that. i also think he resented me because i told him that he had to wear a condom and he didn't really want to. i've never given anyone a handjob for so long in my life. my arm was killing me. he said he was just nervous. he really wasn't great at fingering. that didn't really do much for me, but i mean, it wasn't terrible. he kept asking if it was ok and i just said yeah its fine. he continually told me i was pretty, which was such a huge boost to my self esteem and really made it all worth it. also, i was naked and i've never been totally naked in front of another person who wasn't a doctor. the sex also didn't hurt as much as it had in the past, so i guess my vadge is growing. gross right? i also had wished that the tv was on while we were doing it, but i didn't have the guts to suggest it. i also pretended that he was alan davies the whole time. and i kept getting up to go to the bathroom and text my friend to tell her that i was still alive. the problem is, i think he really likes me and i sort of never want to see him again. it's not that it was a bad experience, but i would just prefer this to be a one night stand sort of deal. he IMed me as soon as i got back and was all i had a really good time you're so pretty etc. i'm going to have to block him if this continues. anyway, when i got home, i got completely wasted and hung out with my roommates. only one of my friends knows about this and she is sworn to secrecy. we even have promise rings never to tell. that's how close i feel to you guys, that i'm telling you about this. i told the rest of my roommates that i was going to the library to study. har har.

this morning, i randomly put the ring on my thumb and it got stuck and swelled up so much that i couldn't get it off. i tried everything. i put butter, lotion, windex, ice, etc on it and it wasn't coming off, so i had to go to the emergency room and get them to get it off. there's some kind of irony in all of this, but i'm not sure what it is. anyway, it's been quite a weekend.

mandee

  

whoisnumbaone

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 10:13 AM

i guess my vadge is growing. gross right?

i think its great when a girl refers to her vagina as a "vadge." That's way funnier than it is gross.


Yeah that is pretty ironic. So did they cutt off the ring?

You should keep that guys contact info just in case you want to do this again a month from now. You never know?

whoisnumbaone

  

bguirk

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 10:13 AM

there's some kind of irony in all of this,

Like the very pants you were about to return?

good job mandee--way to share and I think you made that go about as well as these things can go.

bguirk

  

whoisnumbaone

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 10:17 AM

i agree with bguirk 100% It takes alot of self-esteem and balls (ovaries) to go though with something like this. Good Shit!

whoisnumbaone

  

foob2011

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 10:45 AM

now the ultimate question, go back in time, would you go through with it if you knew how it would go?

foob2011

  

Beat It!

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 10:48 AM
Edited Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 10:49 AM

On one hand I'm oddly proud of you. You conducted this as well as can be expected and seem pleased overall.

On the other I want to kick your dad in the nuts. He bears responsibility for his little girl scouring the internet for creepy, anonymous hotel trysts.

I guess I'll compromise and just be proud of your dad's nuts.

So is this an experience you'll share with your therapist?

Beat It!

  

stefanie

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 10:50 AM

i'm so glad you're not dead

stefanie

  

bguirk

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 10:53 AM

On the other I want to kick your dad in the nuts. He bears responsibility for his little girl scouring the internet for creepy, anonymous hotel trysts.

I think she did this on her own terms and while it's probably not Dr. Drew sanctioned behavior it's something I would do were I single--it would at least be in the realm of things I'd consider.

bguirk

  

mandee

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 11:28 AM

i don't know if i should tell my therapist. what do you guys think? i hate talking about sex. it's one thing to type it, but i don't want to have to spend an hour going through everything.

also, now that i have this out of my system, i doubt that i'm going to do it again.

mandee

  

doingdoingdoing

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 11:35 AM

He bears responsibility for his little girl scouring the internet for creepy, anonymous hotel trysts.

i'm sure her dad has plenty of reasons to be kicked in the nuts, but not for this. she's full-grown and taking responsibility for her urges. i mean she could've raped someone, but she went to the trouble of finding a consenting adult. how is that wrong in any way? also lol that everyone was afraid she'd be murdered but he turned out to be a cuddler and pretty nice guy who is into her. socially sanctioned hookups that take place at bars are probably a lot less safe than that.

doingdoingdoing

  

ZT Spice

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 11:50 AM

i don't know if i should tell my therapist. what do you guys think? i hate talking about sex. it's one thing to type it, but i don't want to have to spend an hour going through everything. —mandee

The only time I keep things from my therapist(s) is if telling them would require them to legally hospitalize me or otherwise notify the authorities.

So, yes, I would tell your therapist.

ZT Spice

  

whoisnumbaone

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 11:53 AM

i think this is exactly the type of thing your supposed to tell your therapist.

whoisnumbaone

  

adams_babymomma

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 12:17 PM

Well, I'm glad that went well.


I wanna see a pic of him!

adams_babymomma

  

anfernee

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 1:48 PM
Edited Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 1:49 PM

As do I.^

On one hand I'm oddly proud of you.
On the other I want to kick your dad in the nuts.
I guess I'll compromise and just be proud of your dad's nuts.

attn Laith

also lol that everyone was afraid she'd be murdered but he turned out to be a cuddler and pretty nice guy who is into her. socially sanctioned hookups that take place at bars are probably a lot less safe than that.
That is a really good point.

anfernee

  

Masteel

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 2:31 PM
Edited Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 2:32 PM

Like the very pants you were about to return?

—bguirk

LOL! Gotta love the out of the blue Seinfeld references.

Masteel

  

John Lennon

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 2:48 PM

Mandee, tell your therapist. And it would probably be a good idea to try dating people on campus. Ask your friends to help hook you up, I'm sure they would be happy to help you.

Think about talking to your therapist about not only what you did, but why you did it.

John Lennon

  

mandee

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 4:03 PM

i'm sure her dad has plenty of reasons to be kicked in the nuts, but not for this.

Truth.

i should be ignoring drake's stupid comment, but i just have to say, i think i have made it quite obvious that i don't want to date anyone, especially anyone that goes to my school. i just wanted to have random sex with someone i'll never see again, i did that, and now it's out of my system.

mandee

  

plurry

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 5:28 PM

huh. well, i guess everything worked out. i was so ambivalent on what to say, i didn't chime in at all.

i've never had a one night stand. now i'm jealous.

plurry

  

I Say Good Day

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 5:47 PM

i don't think i have had anything but one-night stands. good times.

I Say Good Day

  

plurry

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 5:54 PM

the brother man is a rambler. i'd be worried if you'd had the opposite experience.

plurry

  

Masteel

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 7:08 PM

i just wanted to have random sex with someone i'll never see again, i did that, and now it's out of my system.

—mandee

Unfortunately, now the STDs are in.

Masteel

  

mandee

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 7:30 PM

he wore a condom. i have also only had one night stands, but i've also only slept with 4 people. one is dead, two have graduated, and one is a stranger, so nothing is awkward or bad, except that one of my friends died, but you know, it happens. i hate intimacy.

mandee

  

Beat It!

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 7:31 PM

i hate intimacy. — mandee

Goes without saying. Which leads to all of this and which is why dad needs a nut kicking.

Why do you people not listen?

Beat It!

  

mandee

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 7:33 PM
Edited Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 7:34 PM

i don't really know if this has to do with my dad. my dad is just a cheap jew. but why do i need to be intimate anyway? i love puppies though!

mandee

  

Beat It!

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 7:40 PM
Edited Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 7:40 PM

Hasn't he been gone and/or detached from you during a large chunk of your life? Your parents divorced, right?

Beat It!

  

mandee

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 7:41 PM

they're divorced, but i had always seen him at least once a week while i was still living at home.

mandee

  

Beat It!

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 7:47 PM
Edited Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 7:47 PM

All righty. I thought you had said there was detachment between you two or just a that your relationship was pretty much frosty. Maybe I just inferred it from you being so clearly afraid of intimacy.

Your humor is a shield and you seem starved for attention. But, you know, in a good way.

Beat It!

  

bguirk

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 8:28 PM

let's not get up in mandee's head about this--she did what she did, brought it to the forum, and really none of us are qualified to play Dr Drew here.

bguirk

  

Masteel

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 9:27 PM

Agree completely.

Masteel

  

mandee

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 9:44 PM

Your humor is a shield and you seem starved for attention. But, you know, in a good way.

yeah.

i mean, my dad is definitely no saint. he's a slimey jew and was physically abusive. i still talk to him on the phone at least once a week though (so that he'll give me money).

mandee

  

TortillaFactory

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Sunday, February 10, 2008 at 9:58 PM

bleed him for all the money he's worth, but don't get too dependent on him. that's what he thrives on.

TortillaFactory

  

mandee

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