Wednesday, August 15, 2007 at 9:14 PM "So I'm a 17 girl and he's 16 boy, we've been friends throughout high school, we've double dated and consoled each other through breakups ect. We've hooked up a few times (even when we were involved with other people) but always laughed it off, we've openly discussed dating each other but always agreed that it's best if we remain friends. I lost my virginity when I was 15 to an 18 year old , and since then always freaked out about sleeping with a younger virgin, are many times when we've wanted to have sex, I've stop myself because I don't want to be his first. I know that most people think that "friends with benefits" never works, but believe me, in this case it just does.
Has anyone been in this position before?
Is it wrong that I'm just sexually attracted to him, and don't want more than a friendship? if we're friends and sexually attracted to each other, why do we cringe at the thought of dating each other?When he loses his virginity will it change him? Us?" —plurry |
