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acm323

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Monday, December 11, 2006 at 1:48 AM
Edited Monday, December 11, 2006 at 1:48 AM

Hey guys! I've been lurking around here for a few weeks and I have finally decided to post. I decided right after seeing a really strange picture of Hugh Laurie on here. It made me laugh really hard and I decided to just start posting.

I am a 25 year old female living in Southern California. I love to read and write. I really miss the old days of Adam and Drew. :-(

Well, this post would be pretty lame if I just said hello and nothing else. I thought I would share an open letter about a coworker of mine. I'd love to hear your thoughts.

Dear c*nt at work,

I've heard that you hate me and refuse to work with me. I found this very odd. I don't even know you. I've only worked with you a handful of times and during each of those times I barely spoke to you. I barely spoke to you for two reasons. One, you had a major stick up your ass. And two, you just didn't seem like someone I'd want to talk to anyway, so I remained silent throughout our times together.

Now, apparently you hate me. I don't really understand how you can hate someone you don't even know and rarely see. My guess is that you are just the kind of bitch that needs drama in her life. For whatever reason, I was your lucky victim.

It doesn't really bother me that you hate me. No one can be friends with everyone. I knew that there was something really wrong with you when you went out of your way to start shit with someone that doesn't even know or care to know you.

You are a very immature person. Maybe your father left when you when you were young. Maybe he beat you. Maybe he touched your no no place. Honestly? I don't really care. That's something you should talk to your friends about (if you have any) or hire a therapist for.

I just come to work five days a week for the paycheck. Occassionally I will meet someone interesting and start chatting more with them. I might even call one of these individuals my "friends." But I do not go to work to meet friends. I don't care if you don't like me or if we are ever going to be friends. Which...we're not.

I was told by two managers that you want to write a statement about me. For what? Because I didn't ask you why you were having a bad day? Because when you told me you were feeling sick one day, I didn't say: "oh, I hope you feel better, sweetie." Bitch, please! What are you going to write a statement on? You've got nothing on me!

If you wrote a statement on me, it would most likely be full of lies, because I haven't done shit to you! And THAT...I will not tolerate. If you make up lies about me you will live to regret it.

If you can't work around me(someone that doesn't talk to you and minds their own fucking business) then you have some serious issues.

Kindly spare me the drama and just fucking grow up. If you can't grow up then please walk in front of a bus and die a horrible death.

Sincerely,

acm323

acm323

  

ZT-In-Thought

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Saturday, December 16, 2006 at 12:43 AM

huh... how did I miss this? As long as you're not drake or striker pretending to be someone else, it's good to have you here.

ZT-In-Thought

  

mandeemoo22

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Saturday, December 16, 2006 at 12:48 AM

it kind of seems like this letter would add more fuel to the fire

mandeemoo22

  

AceRockollaisAce

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Saturday, December 16, 2006 at 4:10 AM

You are a very immature person. Maybe your father left when you when you were young. Maybe he beat you. Maybe he touched your no no place. Honestly? I don't really care. That's something you should talk to your friends about (if you have any) or hire a therapist for.

I love the way all of us who listen to loveline can now do amatuer diagnoses with such confidence

The rest of the letter seems a complete retard move because if somebody is going to report you that letter right there will be all they need !!
(Having said its a retard move I am sure I would have done it as well!! But I never said I was perfect).

AceRockollaisAce

  

catloaf

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Saturday, December 16, 2006 at 8:45 AM

I barely spoke to you for two reasons. One, you had a major stick up your ass.

Huh. Maybe she just assumed you were the one with a stick up your ass. Just sayin'...

catloaf

  

John Lennon

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Saturday, December 16, 2006 at 10:20 AM

We all know if women can't find something to be pissed off at someone else about (especially to be pissed off at another woman about), they will just make stuff up so they can feel justified in getting pissed off.

John Lennon

  

Had To Get It On

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Saturday, December 16, 2006 at 11:02 AM

I made it to the second sentence of that letter.

Had To Get It On

  

anobody

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Saturday, December 16, 2006 at 11:18 AM
Edited Saturday, December 16, 2006 at 11:22 AM

huh... how did I miss this?

Must be the Forum Gods. 

As long as you're not drake or striker pretending to be someone else, it's good to have you here. 

Agreed.

Dear c*nt at work,

Strong start. I'd have gone without the '*' though - it's more diplomatic that way. Vinegar and honey, you know. 

I'd love to hear your thoughts.

Well... if you're just writing it here to get it out of your system, nothing wrong with it. Like Ace and Mandee said - probably not a great plan to actually send it. 

Also, catloaf made a good point - although it sounds like your coworker is being unfair and likes drama, you should consider your role in things. If she's 'got nothing on you', as you said, then you should have nothing to fear from her - no sense in adding fuel to the fire. 

We all know if women can't find something to be pissed off at someone else about (especially to be pissed off at another woman about), they will just make stuff up so they can feel justified in getting pissed off. 

Although there do seem to be a lot of catty women who get into novelty feuds at work for no apparent reason, I wouldn't just assume that everything they do and say is unmotivated (especially if you're pulling shit like taking a nacho from their plate, nibbling around the edges and then putting it back on the same plate).

anobody

  

acm323

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Saturday, December 16, 2006 at 3:18 PM

Hee hee!

No, of course I don't plan on sending it. I just needed to vent. I think the situation is better. I think she's realizing she's crazy.

acm323

  

anobody

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Saturday, December 16, 2006 at 3:34 PM

No, of course I don't plan on sending it.

Yeah - I assumed not but you never know - some people are just insane or retarded. 

I just needed to vent. I think the situation is better.

Glad you had that opportunity / good to know.

I think she's realizing she's crazy.

Somehow that just made me laugh.

anobody

  

Dusty TheHick

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Saturday, December 16, 2006 at 6:24 PM

Glad you're not sending it, and that you feel better after venting.

Welcome to the forum! (under the same conditions ZT has already laid out, of course)

...now pull my finger.


[This is where I customarily leave a welcome gift...but I don't dislike you...yet.]

Dusty TheHick

  

chix0r

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Saturday, December 16, 2006 at 6:35 PM

I'm calling bogus based on generic personality and the fact that people with multiple accounts have their posts hidden.

chix0r

  

rAnCIDsICk@!!!

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Saturday, December 16, 2006 at 6:40 PM

love the way all of us who listen to loveline can now do amatuer diagnoses with such confidence

—AceRockollaisAce

Funny because it's true, and I find myself doing it all the time.
DAMN YOU DREW!!!




rAnCIDsICk@!!!

  

Dusty TheHick

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Saturday, December 16, 2006 at 7:29 PM
Edited Saturday, December 16, 2006 at 7:40 PM

people with multiple accounts have their posts hidden.

—chix0r

I did not know that. Weird wild stuff.


EDIT: Is it time to say "tits or GTFO" yet?

Dusty TheHick

  

mandeemoo22

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Saturday, December 16, 2006 at 7:43 PM

Yeah, that's how I know which characters are fake.

mandeemoo22

  

Dusty TheHick

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Saturday, December 16, 2006 at 7:45 PM

Well don't I feel like a schmuck.

Dusty TheHick

  

anobody

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Saturday, December 16, 2006 at 8:20 PM

Funny because it's true, and I find myself doing it all the time.

I did it way before I heard Loveline. Back when I was in grade school I was analyzing the bullies and thinking about what horrible things their parents must have done to them. Always made me feel sorry for them (even though I still hated their guts).

anobody

  

ZT-In-Thought

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Saturday, December 16, 2006 at 11:02 PM

I'm calling bogus based on generic personality and the fact that people with multiple accounts have their posts hidden. —chix0r

As someone with multiple accounts...

I'm pretty sure all accounts are associated with the IPs they were originally registered under. When there is a "duplicate" (a single ip associated with more than one account) the new account's post get screened for a few days (it might unscreen them automatically after a few days, or maybe SV does it at his/her discretion). There are 3245 users, and it's not impossible that one would come from a duplicate IP.

Though, I didn't think of that when I replied to the post. I figured I just missed it.

ZT-In-Thought

  

bguirk

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Saturday, December 16, 2006 at 11:37 PM


EDIT: Is it time to say "tits or GTFO" yet?

—Dusty TheHick

Christ. I didn't want to jinx my pitcher in the middle of a no-hitter ,but we went a whole 5 days before someone even mentioned it. That's got to be some sort of TLC record. Has to be.

bguirk

  

acm323

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 2:29 AM

Thanks for the welcome! :-)

I've been lurking for about 3 or 4 months and just felt like posting the other day.

acm323

  

anobody

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 2:38 AM

I'm pretty sure all accounts are associated with the IPs they were originally registered under. When there is a "duplicate" (a single ip associated with more than one account) the new account's post get screened for a few days (it might unscreen them automatically after a few days, or maybe SV does it at his/her discretion). There are 3245 users, and it's not impossible that one would come from a duplicate IP. 

I just tested this by registering with a different IP and email address. Those posts aren't showing up yet either, so I wouldn't hold that against acm - I think it might just  be a general screening process that everyone goes through. 

anobody

  

ZT-In-Thought

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 4:12 AM

STALKING.....


ZT-In-Thought

  

ZT-In-Thought

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 4:16 AM

I'VE GOT A HOLE IN MY SOUL, AND SOMETIMES IT'S STICKY A BROWN.


ZT-In-Thought

  

ZT-In-Thought

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 4:17 AM

DOLLAR BILL, YA'LL.


ZT-In-Thought

  

ZT-In-Thought

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 4:20 AM

COME ON EVERYBODY AND DANCE WITH ME.


ZT-In-Thought

  

ZT-In-Thought

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 4:22 AM

I'M GOING TO SNEEZE UNTIL THERE ARE LIPS AROUND MY PENIS.


ZT-In-Thought

  

ZT-In-Thought

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 4:26 AM

WE CARE A LOT, FAITH NO MORE STYLE. COLOR ME BAD.


ZT-In-Thought

  

ZT-In-Thought

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 4:28 AM

IF YOU CAN TELL, I KNOW HOW TO USE GOOGLE. NEXT I WILL TRY YAHOO, MSN, ASK JEEVES, YACY, NUTCH, AND MY BALLS.

ALISON, IT SEEMS THAT YOU ROCK IT WELL.


ZT-In-Thought

  

ZT-In-Thought

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 12:53 PM

[info]acm323

I just tested this by registering with a different IP and email address. Those posts aren't showing up yet either, so I wouldn't hold that against acm - I think it might just be a general screening process that everyone goes through. —anobody

WHEN YOU LIE LIKE THAT, IT MAKES THE BABY JESUS CRY.

ZT-In-Thought

  

anobody

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 12:58 PM

I didn't lie.

Coming soon to a forum near you.

anobody

  

ZT-In-Thought

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 2:43 PM

JESUS, SHOULD I BELIEVE THAN ANOBODY REALLY DID IT FROM ANOTHER IP ADDRESS HE HASN'T USED BEFORE?

JESUS: HUGLAGHALGHALGHAL! NOW YOU ARE DOING THE MILLIE VANILLE.

OKAY, JESUS, I'LL TAKE THAT AS A NO.

ZT-In-Thought

  

acm323

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 3:06 PM

Now, I'm scared.

That one in German isn't mine.

acm323

  

mandeemoo22

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 3:09 PM

Stop, ZT! You're going to scare her off.

mandeemoo22

  

anobody

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 3:10 PM
Edited Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 3:10 PM

Stop, ZT! You're going to scare her off. 

Ditto.

OKAY, JESUS, I'LL TAKE THAT AS A NO. 

Misinterpret Jesus however you will, I still used lynx on a unix box I've never used before to access this site specifically because I was hoping the posts would show up instantly. 

anobody

  

ZT-In-Thought

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 3:27 PM

Stop, ZT! You're going to scare her off. —mandeemoo22

Pssh.. It's just Google.

Misinterpret Jesus however you will, I still used lynx on a unix box I've never used before to access this site specifically because I was hoping the posts would show up instantly. —anobody

Jesus says you were probably on a network with a shared IP.

ZT-In-Thought

  

anobody

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 3:43 PM

Jesus says you were probably on a network with a shared IP. 

Jesus is sorely mistaken. It was a system with a static world-visible IP address. The only thing it has in common with any other system I've logged in with are the first two 8 bit blocks of address. 

I can register a new gmail address and try it again on another machine with a different IP if you'd like. 

anobody

  

ZT-In-Thought

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 3:56 PM

Jesus still doesn't believe you and thinks you should use mailinator instead of wasting gmail invites.

ZT-In-Thought

  

anobody

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 4:01 PM

Jesus can believe whatever he wants. No skin off my back if he's wrong. 

Also, I have a limitless supply of gmail invites so there's nothing to waste, but I will still try mailinator next time just to save registration time.  

anobody

  

ZT-In-Thought

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 6:19 PM

God loves you anyway.

ZT-In-Thought

  

anobody

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 6:47 PM

Bless you, father.

anobody

  

Kevin U.

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 8:13 PM

So, acm323 is a fan of The Big Lebowski? That's one of my favorite movies.

Kevin U.

  

Dusty TheHick

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 8:20 PM

Christ. I didn't want to jinx my pitcher in the middle of a no-hitter ,but we went a whole 5 days before someone even mentioned it. That's got to be some sort of TLC record. Has to be.

—bguirk


The record still grows. I was very careful not to technically say it.

Dusty TheHick

  

Stryker311

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 9:22 PM

you guys are so creepy. everytime a girl comes on the forum, you guys freak out.

Stryker311

  

bguirk

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 9:25 PM
Edited Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 9:58 PM

ahem. Those other guys are creepy. I'm only creepy over kelly (come back baby). The rest of them might as well be dudes to me.

bguirk

  

Dusty TheHick

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 10:21 PM
Edited Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 10:21 PM

Fuck you, anfernee. I was only 'careful' to keep the other dudes' minds at ease.

EDIT: Don't you have some Mormons to stalk or something?

Dusty TheHick

  

Stryker311

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 10:25 PM

HDY (how dare you). that is so almost as good as HL (hard-core laughing).

actaully, "you guys" was 95 percent aimed towards ZT. my point is that if this was a dude, there's no way you'd give him such a warm welcome and stuff.

Stryker311

  

Dusty TheHick

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Sunday, December 17, 2006 at 10:57 PM

Fuck no!

btw... "HDY" is infinitely better than "HL."

Dusty TheHick

  

rAnCIDsICk@!!!

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Monday, December 18, 2006 at 12:22 AM
Edited Monday, December 18, 2006 at 12:22 AM

I have to 2nd that I love the big lebowski as well.
I can never look at a white russian or a bowling alley
without thinking of the dude or Jesus polishing his ball.

"You don't fuck with the jesus"

Also ZT i found your snooping hillarious.

Acm welcome to the forum, and with that it's custom that
we do ask since your now a welcomed addition to the board
to post some tits. They may not have to be yours at this present
time but there are plenty on the internet.
So since you been lurking for a tad bit, orginality is desired
in your tresure hunt of acceptable boobs.

Thx in advance.

rAnCIDsICk@!!!

  

anobody

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Monday, December 18, 2006 at 12:33 AM

I have to 2nd that I love the big lebowski as well.

I'll 3'rd it too. 

anobody

  

acm323

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Monday, December 18, 2006 at 2:25 AM

You can kind of see my shape here. I've been told I have a nice pair. They've gotten bigger over the years. I guess it's because I'm not a skinny little bitch anymore. Now, I'm just an averaged sized bitch.

acm323

  

oh-for

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Monday, December 18, 2006 at 4:02 AM

Rookie has a nice pair AND likes The Who?

she can stay.

oh-for

  

bguirk

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Monday, December 18, 2006 at 7:22 AM

She appears to be a tough broad who will stick. Quick, someone give her lefty's attention whore test.

bguirk

  

John Lennon

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Monday, December 18, 2006 at 4:07 PM

why did you wear an overcoat to get your picture taken?

John Lennon

  

Robots Rule

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Monday, December 18, 2006 at 5:51 PM

I'M TOO LAZY/LATE TO READ THIS. BUT I'LL JUST SAY; TITS OR GTFO

Robots Rule

  

Dusty TheHick

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Monday, December 18, 2006 at 7:48 PM

For acm and oh-for

...and here's one I LOVED back when MTV used to O.D. on it. lol mechanical men

Dusty TheHick

  

oh-for

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Tuesday, December 19, 2006 at 7:54 PM

Thanks Dusty! I just followed those back to the many clips at the wonderful utube.
There's an hour well spent.

Saw them Dec. 2nd at the Boston Garden. Awesome show, but not the same without the Ox.

oh-for

  

acm323

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Wednesday, December 20, 2006 at 5:10 AM

I saw them at the Hollywood Bowl 2 years ago. It's one of the only concerts I've ever been to. The weather was perfect. Roger Daltrey's voice hasn't even changed. He rocked!

acm323

  

oh-for

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Wednesday, December 20, 2006 at 6:21 PM

Best show I've ever seen was the one about 10 yrs. ago when they did Quadrophenia again. It was unbelievable. First tour with Zach Starkey. Played just like Keith Moon. John was amazing. Roger was better than I have ever heard him. I was a little dissapointed with the way he sounded on the 2nd, but later I heard that he came down with bronchitis. Tough to get old.

oh-for

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