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Friday, November 3, 2006 at 8:24 PM
Edited Friday, November 3, 2006 at 8:26 PM I am getting pretty good at talking to people. The last few days at work some friends have stayed after and we talked about stuff. My friends and I were talking about going to the clubs on Halloween and what a good time it was. I talked to a woman at work who is studying microbiology. She is single and 27. She said she thought I was 25 since I didn't go out and drink all the time like a lot of 21 year olds. I told her I wanted to but I didn't have anyone else to go out with and since I work 6 days a week starting at 11 in the morning, I'm scared to get drunk. There is another girl at work who studied psychology and is always smiling and laughing, we get along well but she is 27 so I don't know if it would be OK to ask her to go out (not a date) with me. I want to just ask her to do something; not like a date but just go to an art museum together. I just don't know how to ask someone out without it seeming like a "date". I've done stuff with people outside of work before but as a group, not individually, so I'm kind of worried about it getting around that I was going on a "DATE with _____girl's name______". People at my work like teasing me about things like that but I don't really appreciate it.
I put up with it, but I also take it personally. Also regarding the pot smoking thing: one of the chefs at work said I should try it, along with one of the servers. I guess that's how you know you're a fucked-up person, when people at work say to your face, "Hey smoke some pot buddy".
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Friday, November 3, 2006 at 9:18 PM I'm scared to get drunk. —drakeguy19 Never say that you're scared to get drunk. Try to stick with people who are plus or minus four years from your age. When people tease you, don't take it personally. If you can't fire something as smart or smarter back, forget about it. If you don't have a medical/career reason not to, smoke a little pot when people offer. Find the babapology stuff. When you're telling stories and not asking for advice, it definately would be better received better some place else. —Elvis-In-ZT |
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Friday, November 3, 2006 at 9:29 PM I looked for babapology but didn't understand what it was supposed to be about so I didn't listen to it. Some video that Gary Dell'Abate made in 1993 apologizing to his girlfriend? I don't get it. It's all the same stuff I've been saying about my work going ok and my personal life going not so ok. —drakeguy19 |
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Friday, November 3, 2006 at 9:29 PM WTH is this? Drakeguy do you think this is your journal or something? Why do we need to hear about everything going on in your life? Jesus Christ no wonder why people make fun of you —Population Override |
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Friday, November 3, 2006 at 9:48 PM Well there are people from work that read my MySpace blog. —drakeguy19 |
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Friday, November 3, 2006 at 10:02 PM Then get another blog, or undelete your livejournal. You need to listen to the babapology shows because you don't understand what it's about. I'm ignoring you until you do. —Elvis-In-ZT |
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Saturday, November 4, 2006 at 4:19 AM I lost my lover, Anobody, to drakeguy. So, in that way we're pretty even. —Elvis-In-ZT |
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Saturday, November 4, 2006 at 9:58 AM I lost my lover, Anobody, to drakeguy. So, in that way we're pretty even. Deny. Just because we made out 40-50 times and I ordered you pizza doesn't mean we were ever lovers. Not only that, but Drake and I have never gotten past third base. Plus, I've got more than enough love to spread around. I am getting pretty good at talking to people. Cool - that's good to hear (keep working on it). she is 27 so I don't know if it would be OK to ask her to go out (not a date) with me. No harm in trying (if you were 27 and she was your age, I'd have more reservations). Anyway, why not a 'date'? I mean, you don't have to say "would you like to go on a date with me?" but if you out doesn't that make it one? Isn't that what you really want anyway? I'm kind of worried about it getting around that I was going on a "DATE with _____girl's name______". People at my work like teasing me about things like that but I don't really appreciate it. Maybe you could use some anti-anxiety meds (if you're not on them already; I've never used them myself, but I do think they can help a lot). Also, I could be wrong here but I'm guessing that they're just being friendly and giving you a hard time. Most people (after highschool, anyway) don't actually go out and give people shit to be mean. Also regarding the pot smoking thing: one of the chefs at work said I should try it, along with one of the servers. I guess that's how you know you're a fucked-up person, when people at work say to your face, "Hey smoke some pot buddy". I think they're probably just saying that you seem a bit anxious / tightly wound. Although I wouldn't recommend pot, it's the same idea as anti-anxiety meds. One of the biggest reasons I never started drinking and have never smoked (aside from still thinking that both are 'yucky') is that I'm pretty anxious socially and I'd worry that doing either would make relax, get comfortable, and then I'd do better with people. Looking back, I know that if I drank I would have got laid a lot earlier and more often. Not that that's a problem, but if I found some magical elixir that did that, I'd probably end up using it all the time - and given the sheer volume of iced tea and Coke that I drink as it is, I'd need a liver transplant within a year. Having said all that - seriously consider anti-anxiety meds.
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Saturday, November 4, 2006 at 11:22 AM I am getting pretty good at talking to people. Next Lesson: When to STOP talking/typing.
People at my work like teasing me about things like that but I don't really appreciate it.
SHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHhhhhhhhhhhhhhhOCKING!!!
Let's see, drake...You get your balls busted at work over this type of shit...You get your balls busted here at the forum over this type of shit. What's the ONE constant between THAT situation and THIS situation? Give up? It's YOU. What have you learned?
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Saturday, November 4, 2006 at 11:56 AM Come on Dusty - obviously it's not him, it's gotta be everybody else. —anobody |
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Saturday, November 4, 2006 at 12:26 PM Hey now - you know I don't speek German. —anobody |
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Saturday, November 4, 2006 at 12:37 PM
Edited Saturday, November 4, 2006 at 12:37 PM Hey now - you know I don't speek German. —anobody
...nor English, apparently.
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Saturday, November 4, 2006 at 2:21 PM
Edited Saturday, November 4, 2006 at 2:22 PM Bloated Cancer Boy, will you shut the fuck up? I'm going to start going nuclear on you soon. I will out-troll you, motherfucker. —greymatters |
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Saturday, November 4, 2006 at 2:35 PM [bastard offspring of Arsenio Hall's, and Jerry Springer's audiences with teenage rollercoaster riders] Troll! Troll! Troll! Troll! —anobody |
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Saturday, November 4, 2006 at 7:03 PM "QUIT life?" Son..You have to start PARTICIPATING in life (which is your OWN responsibility), before you can THINK about QUITTING it. —Dusty TheHick |
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Saturday, November 4, 2006 at 7:08 PM What do you call working 6 days a week, going to college, and going out with friends every Sunday night doing? —drakeguy19 |
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Saturday, November 4, 2006 at 7:13 PM WHAT "friends?" You're CONSTANTLY whining that you don't have any friends, and are alone. Every time you contradict yourself, anobody climbs a few pegs in the forum's popular opinion. —Dusty TheHick |
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Saturday, November 4, 2006 at 7:16 PM Well I see SOMEONE hasn't been paying attention. Did you miss the post I made about going out with friends from work on Halloween? Did you miss the post I made about asking a friend from work out? How about the one where I wanted to help another friend deal with their post-traumatic stress from Iraq? Maybe someone needs to quit concentrating on calling me their boy and start LISTENING, goddamnit! —drakeguy19 |
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Saturday, November 4, 2006 at 7:23 PM Then what the fuck are you always crying the blues for, bitchboy? If you're Captain Social Butterfly all of a sudden, which is a COMPLETE 180 from all the shit you've commandeered the forum to snivel about, then you can probably shut the fuck up about your goddamn loneliness already.
Seriously, I think the number of exceptions is almost too small to calculate, to "EVERYONE HERE IS COMPLETELY FUCKING SICK OF YOU!"
Even the few posters, who USED to be your most adamant defenders, have, within the past few days, expressed complete and utter frustration with trying to help you pull your head out of your ass, and accept the advice you've been CONSTANTLY BEGGING for for WEEKS (if not MONTHS)! —Dusty TheHick |
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Saturday, November 4, 2006 at 7:29 PM I go out with my friends. When I need company, when I want people to come over and hang out, no one's available. That's what I'm bitching about. —drakeguy19 |
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Saturday, November 4, 2006 at 7:33 PM That's the way it GOES, kid. You can't expect their lives to revolve around you. They're (presumably) young, too. Maybe they find it boring sitting around a dude's apartment all evening, for the same reason YOU find it boring sitting around there ALONE: because there are more entertaining things for them to do with their free time. I mean, from all your postings (many of which I actually HAVE READ, much to my own self-irritation), it seems that they're willing to give you SOME of their time, so why the bitching? —Dusty TheHick |
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Thursday, March 6, 2008 at 4:58 AM drkae ahs no firneds! This is true. This is true. —greymatters —Jaffa Cakes |
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