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Wednesday, August 9, 2006 at 8:15 PM Because mine sucks. I know it's not the worst here, but yeah. —Lefty |
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Wednesday, August 9, 2006 at 9:02 PM I do. I wanted to have milk and cookies, but we ran out of milk! —mandeemoo22 |
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Wednesday, August 9, 2006 at 9:09 PM Sometimes I think my life sucks. I have horrible parents that constantly call me the spawn of the devil. Physically abusive dad he tries to beat the shit out of me when he's drunk, but he's weak, alcoholic parents (mom-wine and tequila, dad-jim beam and his best friend jack daniels) that drink every single day, chronic gamblers, they go to the Indian casino at least twice a week wasting a lot of money (they're there right now), my dad is a pedofile my mom caught him looking at that shit a while ago, she was drunk when she saw him though, his best friend is a 20 something mexican fag and he is 60, he also happens to be a pastor. My mom is just a fucking bitch, no one likes her, none of my relatives will speak to us because they hate her (i have 10 aunts and uncles on her side, barely know any of them). My dad also happens to be a pastor. Both parents smoke, my brother smokes. My sister is as far as I can tell, a slut she cheats on her boyfriend and she's just a bitch but everyone loves her because she's pretty. I'm pretty sure my dad doesn't love me I went in my room the other day and saw the father's day card i gave him in shreds on my floor. I've had the cops called on me 3 times by them, i've been convicted of a felony (brought down to a misdemeanor because i was polite) and served 100 hours of community service, and the next time i get caught doing anything illegal, its cuffs and straight to juvi. I just broke up with the one girl that I loved and the one that helped me through everything, and now I can't talk to her because of my pride, I cut myself a lot, the only reason I've stopped for the past couple days is because I have an interview at Hollister next week (which I won't get the job anyway, I already know) I think I was depressed at one time and I constantly thought about suicide, although I didn't do it, and I don't think I have the willpower to, I just would think about what it would be like constantly, I have the alcoholism gene in me, and I started drinking at 16 and haven't slowed down a bit, I always drink too much, I had sex with a girl I didn't love and now may have gotten her pregnant in the process, one of my best friends is in Iran right now with no definite promise of returning at this point, i have to go to a psychologist every week, my parents do not trust me at all, i have to start doing random drug tests, I've done way more drugs than a boy my age should have, I ditched 150 periods just last semester, got kicked off the swimming and water polo team, my GPA fell from a 4.0 freshman year to a 2.something junior year, i have no future ahead of me, only dreams, i don't even know if i want to go to college, i just want to move out. lots more stuff but everyones already going to say tl;dr. I usually don't complain a lot, but I'm going to right now. But overall, I still like my life, i live in the best country in the world in arguably the best state. I get to live in a house, don't have to worry about getting food each day, i really am very lucky to have the life i have, and therefore would say i do not have the worst life, I think i have one of the best and most fortunate lives. In the grand scheme of things, i am extremely lucky to have what i have, and I do not take this fact for granted in the slightest. —Stryker311 |
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Wednesday, August 9, 2006 at 9:22 PM I tripped and fell and broke my laptop today. So, my life sucks. Also, no one here has ordered me pizza. —zt-in-hell |
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Wednesday, August 9, 2006 at 9:24 PM Sometimes I think my life sucks. I have horrible parents that constantly call me the spawn of the devil.... but good times though, right? —bguirk |
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Wednesday, August 9, 2006 at 9:26 PM but good times though, right?
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Wednesday, August 9, 2006 at 9:28 PM If somebody could post a transcript of Tommy Gavin's speech at the bar from this weeks Rescue Me, that would be great right here. —AsianOrJew |
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Wednesday, August 9, 2006 at 9:29 PM but everyones already going to say tl;dr. Not everyone. i have no future ahead of me, only dreams You're still young. I know I'm just some anonymous a-hole on a board and my words aren't going to change anything, but, much as you've effed up recently, you can still recover (albeit with a lot of recovery). i really am very lucky to have the life i have, and therefore would say i do not have the worst life, I think i have one of the best and most fortunate lives Wow. You have some weird perspective (especially for a dyed in the wool republican). It's good that you appreciate what you have, and all, but I worry that you're a strong contender among the people here. I just hope you hit rock bottom soon so you can start to bring yourself together. —anobody |
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Wednesday, August 9, 2006 at 9:54 PM
Edited Wednesday, August 9, 2006 at 9:57 PM Stryker - sorry man I feel really bad for you, I think you have made me feel suicidal.
You need to forget school and get a job somewhere away from your family, life will be tough financially but at least you will be away from the madness.
You don't have to give up drink and drugs but unless you get a handle on it you are doomed to repeat history, do you think you can get the willpower to only do these things in moderation - and stay on the softer drugs, not crack or crystal.
After a few years when you have stabilised your life you can start doing some kind of evening school or distance learning to get any qualifications you may need.
The only things I can say that might mean something in a few years time are you are only young life sounds like it has been shit, but with a job you can get self belief and gain respect, dont spend all the money and build your way up. Shit even a job at Mcfatburger has a career path. Adam is the perfet example if you are driven its possible to get out of a dead end life and live your dreams.
If all that fails I could adopt you. —AceRockollaisAce |
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Wednesday, August 9, 2006 at 10:00 PM lol thanks Ace. I loled at McFatburger, but I don't think I'll be working there I'm too picky, i hope I get this job at Hollister. For the record, I didn't mean for this to be a sob story, oh poor me poor me! have pity on me! But thanks, nonetheless. —Stryker311 |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 12:00 AM If all that fails I could adopt you. Shit that sounded so pompus - sorry.
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 12:06 AM I didn't think it sounded pompous, I thought it was a very nice and caring thing to say. But I don't think I need adoption, I'm 17, and it's not intolerable. —Stryker311 |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 12:58 AM I'd say take the Adam's approach for this situation. Just stay in school work your ass of and start getting good grades and get into a decent college away from your family.
You can get a scholarship for school so they don't have to pay shit. Ironically when you get older you think that things are going to get easier because you have more freedom, but in reality shit gets REALLY fucking hard. Just go to school and LEARN the necessary shit so you can SURVIVE in the real world.
You have to notice the chances and oppurtunities that present themselves when your young so you can acquire the tools to provide yourself a great life.
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 1:59 AM Repression repression and repression. That's the key to future happiness.
Lefty, why does your life sucks? I wanna know.
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 2:32 AM Ironically when you get older you think that things are going to get easier because you have more freedom, but in reality shit gets REALLY fucking hard. I think that might be your experience, in my reality you have different problems but most of them you can control.
The problems start when others depend on you, if you are on your own you only need to look after yourself and if you had to you could live in a van, work your ass off doing whatever you can get for as many hours as you can and after a couple of years you should have a decent bit of money put aside.
Think about maybe working your way across Europe just for the experience, stuff is out there.
Life should get easier just dont go getting you or somenbody else pregnant. —AceRockollaisAce |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 5:50 AM
Edited Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 5:51 AM Yeah, someone mentioned it above...Go off to college, get a decent job, make millions and millions of dollars, and don't let your parents see a penny of it. Cut all ties with them. Be successful. That's one of the many things you can do to get revenge without doing what your parents deserve [castration and a good kick in the ass]. —andrewwagner777 |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 6:14 AM
Edited Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 6:16 AM i really am very lucky to have the life i have...I think i have one of the best and most fortunate lives. I honestly can't get a handle on whether this is comendable positivity or a simply horrible outlook considering after all that came before it. (I'm leaning toward the latter, though.) This has, however, reinforced my resolve to get you a vasectomy STAT. Go get an esitmate and I'll cut you a check. —Beat It! |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 6:26 AM I'd chip into the vasectomy fund as well. Then at the very least he can go have sex with random girls in casinos and not have to worry about it. —andrewwagner777 |
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From too much Sun and Nazis
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Guaranteed not to bore ya
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 8:01 AM my life sucks wayyyyy worse than stryker's but I will spare you the gruesome details, only because I'm to lazy to type it all at once and that is a bit too much family details for the internets. —Robots Rule |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 8:21 AM I so hope that's not true (if so, I'm going to need to get onto antidepressants). he can go have sex with random girls in casinos and not have to worry about it. Well... save for STDs, anyway. Anyway - I think I like rAnCID / Adam's advice best out of all of ours so far (definitely the most practical). If it's too late to recover your grades, you can always go the GRE route and get into a school that way. Just go someplace as far away from home as possible (think East Coast). Since you were getting a 4-point before, it seems like you're probably college material (though I just had a horrible flash of you getting into a frat and spinning out... don't do that). It'd be a shame for you to miss out on the opportunity to get away and get an education. —anobody |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 8:23 AM my life sucks wayyyyy worse than stryker's but I will spare you the gruesome details, only because I'm to lazy to type it all at once and that is a bit too much family details for the internets. Horseshit. we need the details —AceRockollaisAce |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 8:23 AM if so, I'm going to need to get onto antidepressants
it's ok, I already take enough for the both of us, and by antidepressants, I mean booze and drugs.
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 8:24 AM my life sucks wayyyyy worse than stryker's but I will spare you the gruesome details, only because I'm to lazy to type it all at once and that is a bit too much family details for the internets. Yeah I agree with British Ace. You can't just say that and then leave us all hanging. And I'd love to see how you can top Stryker's crappy life. —andrewwagner777 |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 8:24 AM
Edited Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 8:25 AM Based on their posts, I think it's no secret that Stryker and RR have appropriately horrible parents and therefore lousy lives with years of self-medicating ahead (and will someday turn into supremely crappy parents themselves.) Spay and neuter yourselves, PLEASE!!!! I'm buying. —Beat It! |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 8:26 AM "Paul, I am sick and tried you try to play me. I have every E-Mail you had sended me. You leave me no joyce. I will do what I got to do to show the world that you and no respect sales people and Mintotity's. If you knew the account were bad why bring them on broad? You wanted to meet your quote Paul. Every account I open, I will close, just wait and see. Paid me or else........" —000 |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 8:52 AM
Edited Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 8:54 AM let the comparison begin[we are the same person] Sometimes I think my life sucks.
me too, then again what are teenagers supposed to feel Physically abusive dad he tries to beat the shit out of me when he's drunk, but he's weak, alcoholic parents that drink every single day,
replace that with an abusive mom that is obsessed with body image and could probably break me in half if she really tried[seriously, she's a beast]this goes along with her telling me that I'm fat chronic gamblers, they go to the Indian casino at least twice a week wasting a lot of money (they're there right now),
my mom is just obsessed with body image which means that she goes to the gym everyday for at least five hours, and barely eats anything and still thinks that she is fat.[exercise bullimia anyone?] my dad is a pedofile my mom caught him looking at that shit a while ago, she was drunk when she saw him though, his best friend is a 20 something mexican fag and he is 60, he also happens to be a pastor.
my dad acted upon it and touched daddy's little girls [thankfully I don't really remember, but my sister/family have told me] My mom is just a fucking bitch, no one likes her, none of my relatives will speak to us because they hate her (i have 10 aunts and uncles on her side, barely know any of them).
same with mine, I haven't had friends over to the house with her home in about a year because she will openly call my friends fat or sluts[which they are not] My dad also happens to be a pastor.
mine happens to be dead [he killed himself on christmas two years ago] Both parents smoke, my brother smokes. My sister is as far as I can tell, a slut she cheats on her boyfriend and she's just a bitch but everyone loves her because she's pretty.
what's wrong with smoking, it's more of an inconvenience I'm pretty sure my dad doesn't love me I went in my room the other day and saw the father's day card i gave him in shreds on my floor.
I'm pretty sure my dad is dead, but I don't ever remember him saying "I love you" to me.
My mom on the other hand said flat out that she didn't love me. [i don't believe her] I've had the cops called on me 3 times by them, i've been convicted of a felony (brought down to a misdemeanor because i was polite) and served 100 hours of community service, and the next time i get caught doing anything illegal, its cuffs and straight to juvi. I just broke up with the one girl that I loved and the one that helped me through everything, and now I can't talk to her because of my pride,
I am not a retard[no offense but look at yourself] I cut myself a lot, the only reason I've stopped for the past couple days is because I have an interview at Hollister next week (which I won't get the job anyway, I already know) I think I was depressed at one time and I constantly thought about suicide, although I didn't do it, and I don't think I have the willpower to, I just would think about what it would be like constantly, I have the alcoholism gene in me, and I started drinking at 16 and haven't slowed down a bit, I always drink too much, I cut myself too, and I would even more if I worked at hollister. I'm still depressed/think about suicide. Surprise, I haven't commit suicide either! my father was an alcoholic, he had a couple DUI's under his belt.[I've been the car with him many a time when he was shit-faced] there is nothing like walking into your backyard nine in the morning seeing your father drink straight out of a tequila bottle while digging through the recycling bin looking for a place to hide the empty bottles. I started drinking at fourteen and pot/painkillers/OC at fifteen[which is ridiculous no that I think about it] I had sex with a girl I didn't love and now may have gotten her pregnant in the process, one of my best friends is in Iran right now with no definite promise of returning at this point, i have to go to a psychologist every week, my parents do not trust me at all, i have to start doing random drug tests, me not so much. I had sex with a boy that I love, we used a condom and I'm not pregnant, I don't befriend retards that want to kill themselves by going to Iran. I'm not allowed to go to a therapist because my mom thinks that it won't help, which is total bullshit. and I don't let my mom know that I'm a druggie I've done way more drugs than a boy my age should have, I ditched 150 periods just last semester, got kicked off the swimming and water polo team, my GPA fell from a 4.0 freshman year to a 2.something junior year, i have no future ahead of me, only dreams,\ no —Robots Rule |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 10:02 AM ^ true, but maybe If I go fail some classes/knock-up some teens/complain about smoking/work at hollister I will redeem myself —Robots Rule |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 10:07 AM
Edited Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 10:10 AM Anybody else want to chip in on the sterilization now? End the cycle for a brighter tomorrow. my dad...touched daddy's little girls. (he) happens to be dead [he killed himself. Good, I only hope it was painful. Too bad he didn't have the sense to do that about thrity years earlier, but at least he won't ruin any more lives. NOt that damage he's already done won't be felt exponentially for generations to come. It's times like these I wish hell actually existed. thankfully I don't really remember, but my sister/family have told me Consciously? Perhaps not. But the damage is evident, so the memory part is pretty much irrelvant. Let's hear it for repression. —Beat It! |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 10:09 AM Dylan may be past his sell-by date, but a long time ago he said: I know you have suffered much
But in this, you are not so unique. Look, I know how it is when your parents - the people you're supposed to love and respect most in the world - are not worthy of that respect. You love them anyway, because you have to, and it hurts like hell. I know depression, too. Believe me. I know anger. I know emotional instability. I know the desire to self-mutilate. But whining about your sucky life in this thread isn't going to make anyone like you more. Everyone has problems, and I know it's trite to say that, but it's true. Some people don't have very big problems, and it's okay to not like them much. Just stop flaunting your suffering like it makes you special. It doesn't. 99% of Loveline's target audience is more screwed-up than than an actual screw. —TortillaFactory |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 10:18 AM
Horseshit. we need the details
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Yeah I agree with British Ace. You can't just say that and then leave us all hanging. And I'd love to see how you can top Stryker's crappy life. __________________________________________
I was told to give deets. and if I were in your position I would prefer to listen to people's sucky lives, it gives you something to do on a rainy thursday morning.
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 11:14 AM Sorry TF, but i you should know that I have an anal fissure and it makes my life a living hell. some traumas are more glamorous than others. begging off of a saturday night with friends because you broke your ankle on the black diamond last week is one end of the spectrum. "sooorry guys, i gotta stay in, my anal fissure is acting up" would be the other end of that spectrum. and that's where i am- the other end. The ass end. frankly this is an embarrassing illness, at least at first. you're sniggering at yourself, with your going on about ass-pain all the time. chortle. gee, you joke, it feels like someone actually lit a fire under my.... after a while though, you stop making jokes. this is because you can't access the language centers of your brain anymore, which have been converted along with everything else into additional pain centers. i've become something of a connoisseur of pain in my time. 2 kidney stones, kidney infections, GERD, IBS, catheters of various stripes, a cone biopsy of the cervix without any anesthetic, and two years of backfiled taxes- i feel as though i qualify as something of an amateur expert on the subject. if there was a job which only required sitting in a room and hurting i feel i would be eminently qualified to do so. it's not my kink or anything, i just know how to endure buttloads of senseless pain (LITRLY!) . let me assure you, anal fissures hurt like hell. I'm not a wimp, it's not in my head, other people aren't living with this all the time far more gracefully than I ever could. this shit just hurts and it makes my life suck.
...I cannot tell a lie, this is pilfered from "The bright, the beautiful, the anal fissure web page." that I was linked to from a /. posting. So at least Strykr does not have an anal fissure (yet?)
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 11:21 AM I was going to write about why my life sucks, but it made me want to kill myself (more), and posting it would be pulling the trigger. —ItHadToBeJew |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 11:51 AM I was going to write about why my life sucks, but it made me want to kill myself (more), and posting it would be pulling the trigger. OK pull that trigger - we are waiting! Just stop flaunting your suffering like it makes you special. It doesn't. 99% of Loveline's target audience is more screwed-up than than an actual screw. TF you are just a non stop pain in my ass - It helps some people to talk about thier problems, It's cathetic and when other people share thier experiences they often realise they are not alone and others have been/are going through the same thing which means they can either see a way forward or have a support group. Just sayin! —AceRockollaisAce |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 12:01 PM Strange as it may sound, I actually don't like to hear about people's suffering. —TortillaFactory And you call yourself a Loveline fan? Where the hell is Dusty in this thread? Isn't this his wheelhouse? —bguirk |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 12:01 PM It's a combination of being dangerously depressed and not wanting to delve into my personal life on here. The rest of you whackos, though, go right ahead. —ItHadToBeJew |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 12:02 PM Where the hell is Dusty in this thread? Isn't this his wheelhouse? My first thought reading the title of this thread was "Dusty." —ItHadToBeJew |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 12:02 PM I think my life sucks, because I'm missing out on it. I don't do anything fun, like go to the club, go out for drinks, stay out on the town late, crash celeb parties. All i do is stay home, go to school. I don't even get to see my friends anymore. I want to be with seamen, but he's gonna be in iraq all year. Might come back with one leg :( The good news is that I just saved a bunch of money on my car insurance by switching to Geico. —adams_babymomma |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 12:03 PM
Edited Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 12:04 PM i've always thought anal fission would be the solution to the world's mounting energy crises. No, seriously, I have never heard of anal fissures before, and I'm as curious and macabre as the next person (well, close enough) but once in awhile you get wind of something that sounds so incredibly awful that you realize that you're likely better off remaining in the dark about it - that's pretty much how I feel about this particular subject. And I am not any kind of stoner myself, but from reading that post above I would sincerely hope that such people can get access to some kind of steady supply of mood-altering substance to the point where it helps them block out such a particular kind of heavily steady discomfort, ewwww... and if you really want to hear who has the worst life, ever - well, he's dead now apparently, but this is another of those "I wish I never found out about it" things. Do a web search for a mister mark tatum, there's a couple of particularly graphic pages outlining what happened to this poor fellow, and I think most will agree that nearly no one's had it THAT bad. As for me, well, my life sucks, the guy sitting next to me whistles and taps and sings to himself all day long, it drives me fucking nuts, but he's a nice guy and always laughs at all my stupid shitty jokes so i can't really explode on him and tell him to please shut the fuck up. oh well. one day the dam will finally burst.. believe you me..
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 12:04 PM TF you are just a non stop pain in my ass No, that's the dildo you jammed up there. It's cathartic, and when other people share their experiences, they often realise they are not alone and others have been/are going through the same thing which means they can either see a way forward or have a support group. Didn't you once declare all therapy to be a bogus waste of time? For the record, I have no problem with people sharing their experiences, but not in the context of trying to outdo each other with suffering. It's not healthy, and it's not cathartic. It's designed to get attention and to make the rest of us feel bad. Yes - yes it is. I know. I've been there. —TortillaFactory |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 12:58 PM It helps some people to talk about thier problems, It's cathetic... I figured he was going for 'pathetic.' Everyone has their own burdens to bear and though you can dismiss someone else's as trivial compared to your own trials, the bottom line is they still have to deal with it and it sucks for them. Acknowledging that someone else's problems may be 'worse' doesn't make your own go away. And I don't care who you are, there's always someone who will say they're worse off than you (as seen here), whether that makes you feel better or worse I guess is the key. —Beat It! |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 1:05 PM I figured he was going for 'pathetic.' No it was Cathartic - as for the spelling I can't be arsed to bother spell checking and please believe me it does not worry me that you guys spend so much time worrying about it, from what I hear of some of your lives it is probably the only good thing that happens to you each day, finding my spelling balls ups.
Keep looking at least it means you read the crap I write.
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 2:14 PM Who here has the worst life? I was asked to teach a Junior College course today. I think I'll turn it down because the pay isn't great, I don't wanna teach, and I think only 65% qualified to teach the course. The one fringe benefit may be trying to scrape up some JC booty. Though the pickings may be scanty. But this begs the question: who's a bigger loser- the JC student or teacher? —ProfessorCarbuncle |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 2:17 PM I'm pretty sure my dad doesn't love me I went in my room the other day and saw the father's day card i gave him in shreds on my floor. ouch. really? —ProfessorCarbuncle |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 2:46 PM I was asked to teach a Junior College course today. I think I'll turn it down because the pay isn't great, I don't wanna teach, and I think only 65% qualified to teach the course. The one fringe benefit may be trying to scrape up some JC booty. Though the pickings may be scanty. But this begs the question: who's a bigger loser- the JC student or teacher? —ProfessorCarbuncle NOOOOO don't do it, only people with thier masters should teach at the JC level. SAY NO TO PHD'S. —adams_babymomma |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 5:13 PM Anybody else want to chip in on the sterilization now? End the cycle for a brighter tomorrow. I'm down (shall we start a PayPal account?). whining about your sucky life in this thread isn't going to make anyone like you more I didn't think that was their goal (neither was wallowing - just informing us). 99% of Loveline's target audience is more screwed-up than than an actual screw I'd seriously doubt that it comes close to that (especially if our standard is RR and Stryker). We're all damaged ok. Well, yes and no. Some of us are damaged because our parents missed a few Pop-Warner football games (or the equivalent), others because their parents are abusive alcoholic child molesters. Not quite the same thing. TF you are just a non stop pain in my ass - It helps some people to talk about thier problems, It's cathetic and when other people share thier experiences they often realise they are not alone and others have been/are going through the same thing which means they can either see a way forward or have a support group. Agreed. Also, it's a window into a world that's alien to many of us. It helps put things into perspective, and it helps us understand where others are coming from. It's not healthy, and it's not cathartic. It's designed to get attention and to make the rest of us feel bad. Yes - yes it is. I know. I've been there. That may well be the case, but it doesn't diminish their circumstances (not that us feeling bad would do anything to help them). —anobody |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 5:37 PM (not that us feeling bad would do anything to help them) That's basically my entire point. —TortillaFactory |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 5:45 PM Then we basically agree. —anobody |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 7:36 PM Stryker and Robots. I feel for you both, I truly do. Trust me when I say I know what it's like having fucked up parents. And, having a home life that is drastically different from your social life. Everytime you walk into those doors, you feel as if you've stepped into a different world. You guys are not alone, trust me, I always feel that way because I know that there are millions with simliar or even worse problems. But, I also know, sometimes, you just don't fucking care about them and you always ask, why me? —Lefty |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 7:40 PM My life is so crappy, that I do as much sleeping as possible just so that I can get to the end with as little discomfort as possible. —von zipper |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 7:47 PM Yeah well I have cancer. I think that beats all of yours so far. —drakeguy19 |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 7:50 PM It's not cancer of the ass, is it? Otherwise, you're just tied with justnorthofthebridge. —anobody |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 8:10 PM The good news is that I just saved a bunch of money on my car insurance by switching to Geico. —adams_babymomma Holy shit, ABM made me “lol.”
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 8:19 PM
Edited Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 8:31 PM I wasn't looking for pity, I just described it because Lefty asked. I don't need pity it doesn't help and I hate it. I also don't
like taking advice, sorry if that sounds rude, but that's just how I am. That's why I hate going to a psychiatrist. I know I don't have
the worst life here, I have a lot of things going for me too, I'll post that in the "Who here has the best life?" thread.
idk about Robots Rule her life probably does suck way worse than mine, I don't know her, and for all I know Lefty
could have 100x worse. I think it has somewhat to do with your perspective. My perspective is somewhat bright in comparison
to Robots Rule's so I think she may have it worse off.
Just stop flaunting your suffering like it makes you special.
I'm pretty sure that's aimed at me, and I'm not trying to flaunt, just add something relevant to the thread. sorry?
I don't think I'm "special".
Surprise, I haven't commit suicide either!
lol, I knew I messed up somewhere.
I don't befriend retards that want to kill themselves by going to Iran.
That's fucked dude, he's not a retard he's a good friend, he was born there and his mom wanted to take the family back
one more time before his dad (multiple forms of cancer) dies. His dad probably won't survive the trip I feel so bad for him,
he doesn't deserve it...
Trust me when I say I know what it's like having fucked up parents. And, having a home life that is drastically different from your social life. Everytime you walk into those doors, you feel as if you've stepped into a different world. You guys are not alone, trust me, I always feel that way because I know that there are millions with simliar or even worse problems. But, I also know, sometimes, you just don't fucking care about them and you always ask, why me?
I get the feeling that Lefty has it the worst but he's too humble to mention it.
Edit- damn that pink thing that messed this thread up
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 8:21 PM I like hearing about other people's shit. I don't have much to share. My mom is insane and exagerrates everything. She's rather emotionally abusive at times. My dad is over-controlling and can get physically abusive. We have plenty of boundary issues as well. I was diagnosed with depression when I was about 13 or 14. I have intense anxiety, but I take oodles of medication, so its relatively under control. I cut myself, but I'm not suicidal. My parents were divorced when I was 8 and usually get along, but when they don't, my sister and I are always in the middle of it. The fighting usually revolves around money. My dad never paid enough child support and lies about how much money he makes (including on tax forms). Somehow he has enough money to own three houses, but can only pay 1/3 of my college tuition, while my mom pays 2/3. Obviously this is all petty stuff compared to what the rest of you have been through. You all have more major problems as opposed to my "No one understands me" bullshit. I have been in therapy for many years though. —mandeemoo22 |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 8:37 PM
Edited Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 8:39 PM Wow. My worst stuff pales in comparison to Mandee's. I'll definitely think twice about complaining in the future.... oh, I'll still do it - but I'll think twice about it first. I also don't like taking advice, sorry if that sounds rude, but that's just how I am. That's why I hate going to a psychiatrist. Yeah, nothing we could say would make any difference anyway (just hope you understand that at least some of us care). I'm pretty sure that's aimed at me, and I'm not trying to flaunt, just add something relevant to the thread. sorry? Meh! Screw that. No need for any sort of apology (even tongue in cheek) nor to defend yourself. Edit- damn that pink thing that messed this thread up Yeah, that's pissing me off too. —anobody |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 9:31 PM I don't befriend retards that want to kill themselves by going to Iran.
That's fucked dude, he's not a retard he's a good friend, he was born there and his mom wanted to take the family back
one more time before his dad (multiple forms of cancer) dies. His dad probably won't survive the trip I feel so bad for him,
he doesn't deserve it... whooopsss.....it's a sensitive subject for me. I just assumed he was some redneck that was out to kill osama in the US military.[idk why he would be in iran though] —Robots Rule |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 9:33 PM
Edited Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 9:35 PM dammit, the forum gods downsized the pic, and so now my post looks retarded. he was supposed to be back 2 weeks ago, but Iran is a fag country and some "required military bullshit" as he put it, i dont know... —Stryker311 |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 10:03 PM
Edited Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 10:12 PM The most interesting thing to me is the type of person that has these family problems. The person who would never expect to have any chaos, always has a shit load. It has made me think twice about "judging" people based on their actions and appearance. Just wanted to share that.
Here's a brief sample of my problem:
My problem revolves around my father, just like everyone else... execpt, there's a twist, he has a mental illness... actually, many of them. Paranoia, schizophrenia, bi-polar, etc... He thinks my mom and I are aganist him and are going to do something to him, he's unstable and very unpredictable, he's the type of person that will do something bad and deny he even did it or forget about it. It's really bad right now, but the thing is, it was 100 times worse when I was a young child. I mean it was hell, so much chaos when I was a young child. My dad was sent to a mental hospital, you can imagine how bad the situation became where he had to be arrested and sent away. My mom, oh man, the shit she is dealing with, and has dealt with, I feel so bad for her... The problems that I have, oh man... Drew would have a field day with what's in my head.
This is nothing compared to some of you, not even close. But, I just wanted to share that.
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 10:07 PM
Edited Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 10:10 PM Man, Lefty, that sucks. dammit, the forum gods downsized the pic, and so now my post looks retarded. Look on the bright side - maybe they'll un-fix it.
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 10:23 PM My thoughts are with Lefty, Stryker, Robots Rule, ABM and Mandee. Fight through it. —greymatters |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 10:31 PM That's it, Grey wins the thread. —anobody |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 10:57 PM I gather from this thread and from Loveline that we don't put enough emphasis on parenting being the influence on a person's personality/emotional/moral development. As a society, we point to DNA, junk food, violent media, etc etc, but don't really want to take a look at the most obvious answer. This reminds me of when I was in Nashville last weekend, and I went to the Country Music Hall of Fame. Dolly Parton is a legitimate talent, and she is mentioned positively and prolificly (sp?) in the later part of the exhibit-- but there is no mention of her gigantic boobs. It's like a giant elephant in the room that nobody wants to talk about. Like I said, she's a legit talent, but her double-F cups had to have played a significant role in her career, especially in the early stages. There are Many other talented musicians but I think she had a real leg-up in the talent booking department with that enormous rack. My point is, parenting is crucial, it's responsible for how well a student does in school and later in life. It's calibrates you as a human being. btw, dolly is the only 60 year old I can think of who I'd like to eff. Or at least suckle. —ProfessorCarbuncle |
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 at 11:39 PM btw, dolly is the only 60 year old I can think of who I'd like to eff. Or at least suckle. Those boobs are not 60 years old. I think she has an open relationship so you might be in luck. Dolly gets a lifetime pass for 9 to 5 (the movie, not the song). She's also in my own country music pantheon of artists that I can actually listen to (Willie Nelson, Cash, Gillian Welch, Dolly...) without wretching. —bguirk |
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Friday, August 11, 2006 at 12:29 AM this site makes no sents when youre buzzin. why did dolly parton come up?? i like her collabaration w/ brad paisley. its tite —Stryker311 |
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Friday, August 11, 2006 at 12:41 AM I think ProfessorCarbuncle was horny and about to masturbate to fake Dolly nudes, that's why she was brought up. —greymatters |
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Friday, August 11, 2006 at 1:03 AM lol a professor masturbating. late @ nite is my fav time of day because thats when grey posts —Stryker311 |
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Friday, August 11, 2006 at 2:03 AM I'm glad to hear that so many of you cut...Ok, not glad, exactly, that's a very poor choice of words, but... I guess what I'm trying to say is, when I was younger, I was a cutter. Not just a cutter, I also burned myself. I think I finally stopped when I was 18 or 19. But all those years, I never knew that there were others, I really did think I was the only one that did things like that. So I think it's good that you all are sharing, and that it's something Dr. Drew has addressed on Loveline. In fact, if it weren't for Loveline, I probably would've gone my entire life thinking I was the only person who ever did crap like that. —catloaf |
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Friday, August 11, 2006 at 2:09 AM late @ nite is my fav time of day because thats when grey posts Thanks, Stryker. You're a good person, and even though a lot of the others hate you, that would never affect the way I treat you.
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