Tuesday, August 1, 2006 at 10:02 PM Edited Tuesday, August 1, 2006 at 10:05 PM
Good times.
EDIT: That's definitely not worthy of congratulations in my opinion, however, especially as a female. It's probably harder to retain your virginity nowadays than it is to lose it.
I just realized that plurry, grey and I all had the same impulse... then again, that's not surprising since we're just different rolls played by the same person.
i'm never going to forgive you for dumping me as a myspace friend. i mean, i can take it if spanglemaker dumps me, but you have some upside. so, you know. i cried a little.
I did'nt dump anyone. I cancelled my account. I just realized I am 42 with a MySpace account. Too creepy. You all know my email from this page if you need it.
Spangie, I agree with you about my space except my story is even more pathetic twice I have bothered signing up and twice I have never bothered going back to do anything - Once again i have forgotten my log in details and stuff who cares. Birthday in a few days fortybloodyfive
I feel compelled to point out that I too lost my virginity while I was a member of this forum, but I didn't have any desire to make a thread about it. I'm not sure what my point is, but there you have it.
Wednesday, August 2, 2006 at 4:47 PM Edited Wednesday, August 2, 2006 at 4:49 PM
^can you give us the details?
wait was it when you posted "somebody said my belly button smells like skittles"? and then somebody asked if the guy was going up or down, and you said down.
Wednesday, August 2, 2006 at 6:10 PM Edited Wednesday, August 2, 2006 at 6:13 PM
I feel compelled to point out that I too lost my virginity while I was a member of this forum, but I didn't have any desire to make a thread about it. I'm not sure what my point is, but there you have it.
You either have better boundaries or don't trust us as much as RR does. Either one is probably a good instinct.
I feel compelled to point out that I too lost my virginity while I was a member of this forum, but I didn't have any desire to make a thread about it. I'm not sure what my point is, but there you have it. — chix0r
You weren't acting out in a desperate and constant bid for recognition.
I feel compelled to point out that I too lost my virginity while I was a member of this forum, but I didn't have any desire to make a thread about it. I'm not sure what my point is, but there you have it.
Same. And I also don't know what my point is by saying this.
I feel compelled to point out that I too lost my virginity while I was a member of this forum, but I didn't have any desire to make a thread about it. I'm not sure what my point is, but there you have it.
Same. And I also don't know what my point is by saying this.
you're both jealous that she thought to make a tlc thread marking her deflowering and you didn't.
post-marital for me means "after marriage." We're still together. We're kind of all we have at the moment so we'd better be. If I were divorced I'd feel more free to make lude comments about all the suddenly horny chicks in the forum. As it is I'm the model of restraint.
I see where you're going (even though you didn't mention it - the ice cream scoop).
post-marital for me means "after marriage." We're still together.
Um, it's not just you, it means that for everyone. Well, I guess not everyone.
Classic anobody. Your cluelessness outweighs your helpfulness.
Although I erred, I still think it was a reasonable mistake. Marriage can mean the institution, not just the ceremony, so post-marital could mean 'after marriage', as in divorced (or annulled, if you're trying to pull one over on God).
I get what you're saying, anobody. I thought the same thing, too, because I was thinking, as you said, of marriage as the institution, not the ceremony. Then I thought, "What's the big deal? Why would post-marital sex (in the sense I was thinking of it) be something to announce?"
It's a big deal if you're used to having sex with some frequency and then you have a multi-month dry spell because of a divorce (not that I'm speaking from experience or anything).
t's a big deal if you're used to having sex with some frequency and then you have a multi-month dry spell because of a divorce (not that I'm speaking from experience or anything).
Indeed--especially for a guy. You get all of your confidence back and then some in one fell swoop (in addition to sore muscles). My perscription for Anobody is to become a TA for some undergrad class and go through at least 4 20-somethings. It's your right and duty as a PhD candidate. That or have your friends set you up. Go read or watch About a Boy. Plenty of horny single mothers out there. Just saying.
My perscription for Anobody is to become a TA for some undergrad class and go through at least 4 20-somethings. It's your right and duty as a PhD candidate.
I see what you're saying but I'd worry a bit about the ethics of banging one (or more) of my students.
Anyway, I've TAed for about 4 years already (5 semesters of introductory microbiology lab, 1 of medical microbiology, and 2 semesters of introductory physics labs).
I loved doing it but grading is a huge pain in the ass and time sink (and my graduation has already been pushed back to december).
That or have your friends set you up.
So far I've done that once. She was cute and we got along fairly well but she's also super-conservative and religious so I'm not so sure about my chances there (still, may go out with her again, barring any unforeseen opportunities).
Go read or watch About a Boy. Plenty of horny single mothers out there. Just saying.
Single mothers.... not to be a jackass but I'd almost rather not chance it. I mean, if it were a 1-night stand, it might not be so bad, but if things actually worked out and I wanted to go much past that, it'd be a quick drop-off past the shore into deep commitment.
Thursday, August 3, 2006 at 4:42 PM Edited Thursday, August 3, 2006 at 4:43 PM
No i don't think i will be a crappy parent. As long as my kids don't do drugs, get pregnant out of wedlock, be on welfare, commit a crime, I will be proud of them and myself. If they get thier masters or Phd and contibute to society in a postive way i should be considered the "best mom of the century".
None of my sisters and I have done drugs; my older sisters both are graduates of University of the Pacific, both make over $60, 000 and donate their clothes to Goodwill. So my parents have done a great job?
If they get thier masters or Phd and contibute to society in a postive way i should be considered the "best mom of the century".
Can't quite go with you there.
Lots and lots and lots of people get a masters or Ph.D. and make a positive contribution to society. Somehow, I don't think it's possible for all of their moms to be "best mom of the century".
None of my sisters and I have done drugs; my older sisters both are graduates of University of the Pacific, both make over $60, 000 and donate their clothes to Goodwill. So my parents have done a great job?
I thin there's more to success than just not doing drugs, making $60k/ye, or donating to charity (but that's just me).
Thursday, August 3, 2006 at 6:45 PM Edited Thursday, August 3, 2006 at 6:49 PM
I love my parents, they have taught me what it's like when you don't go to school and accomplish nothing with your life. They are the biggest motivating factor in my life, every time I want to quit or do something that will harm my body, I think of them. Especially my dad, I always think to myself, if I ever become anything similar to him, kill myself. This is useful because I don't want to kill myself, so that's why I do everything in my power to stay away from home and not deal with any of this shit. Every time I see the asshole parents walking down the street, knowing that their kids will grow up just like them, I feel so sorry for the kids, only five years old and they've already been given a disadvantage in life, nothing pisses me off more than seeing poor fucked up people having kids, if they want someone to keep them company, because that's basically the reason they even have kids, they just want someone to talk to when dad is out working with metal, that's the reason they have multiple kids, the one they have is lonely, lets get something for it to play with, I say, why not get a fucking dog? I mean they're going to treat their kids the same way as the dog anyways.
My perscription for Anobody is to become a TA for some undergrad class and go through at least 4 20-somethings.
Dude, fuck ethics. I'm not sure if this is just me (so maybe the rest of the girls here can back me up or shoot me down on this), but one of my secret fantasies is to sleep with a teacher and a TA could partially make that fantasy come true. There have got to be other girls out there who would be just as easy. I don't think there's anything wrong with it either, especially if you are a grad student.
I just tend to agree with Drew about it being grossly inappropriate.
Just to play devil's advocate--those 20 something girls are going to give it up to someone ano-- either their fellow 20-something douche bag classmates who slip them the date-rape drug at the frat party or a nice guy like you. Since you're not in the TA'ing business any more I won't push it any harder, but the old "let's get together when you've gotten your grade" thing makes it OK in most people's book.
Don't knock the single mom thing as a sexual relationship--they can be as crafty as dudes about compartmentalizing their lives around the weekends when Dad has the kid. Those can be good weekends.
Tell your friends to keep trying. I see to much of my former recently dumped not-getting-laid self in Ano. It hurts.
