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Tuesday, May 18, 2004 at 4:49 PM Ok, here is a follow up to a previous post if you guys remember. A girl I am "seeing" wants me to be more agressive, and I am assuming she means make the move not sit and wait. However, there is one small problem. I am trying to respect the fact that she has a boyfriend, and I would rather make her choose me before I just act on this. But at the same time I really want to be with this girl, I just don't know if she is looking for an excuse for some extra action or if she wants a reason to leave her boyfriend. She sort of contradicted herself before because she told me that we couldn't do anything because she had a boyfriend, eventhough she wanted to do something. That prevented us from going beyond a kiss, so if you have any advice, I am all ears. Mainly how would I go about being more aggressive? —Devon |
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Tuesday, May 18, 2004 at 5:03 PM Devon -- stop seeing this girl. She will make you're life hell. It will be so bad that you'll be begging to lick doritos crumbs from Jay Leno's snotty asshole, while kevin eubanks calls you a dirty nigger and makes butt trumpet jokes. —ZT |
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Wednesday, May 19, 2004 at 3:52 AM I just had a similar thing happen -- she's chaotic, trying to sabotage the relationship. If you don't think that's the case, consider your relationship with her boyfriend. If you don't have a relationship with her boyfriend, then hey, you're young! Game on. —Thomas/Frope |
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Wednesday, May 19, 2004 at 5:45 AM Agressive, eh? Just buy her flowers, then punch her in the back of the head. Or..better advice is that this girl is chaotic; stringing you and her 'boyfriend' along and giving vague, opaque demands instead of making up her mind. Give youself One Week to start building a real relation, and if you can't or she won't, just drop it.
Actually, chaotic would imply some wit or foresight, so I'll say she's a bitch. —nathanvsgermany |
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Wednesday, May 19, 2004 at 8:58 AM Just be prepared for her to do the same exact thing to you that she's doing to her current boyfriend. If you are ok with that likely eventuality, go for it. Just go into it with your eyes open. But, you know, good times, though. —Lou Cypher |
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